i'm just a "little" upset.

you know how a little while ago i posted a thread about that boy i'd fallen in love with and how i was too afraid to tell him? well, i never did tell him and today i found out hes moving away in 16 days to another city and isn't planning on coming back because he hates this city.
i'm pretty upset. i don't think i can do anything to make him stay and i can't go with him and i don't know what to do. i know everyone says "if you're meant to be you'll meet again" but thats bullshit.
i don't know if i should tell him how i feel or not.
hes moving to london. i technically could move there. my uncle would hire me (he owns a movie theatre there) but i don't know. i guess i should tell him but now i'm even more afraid to than i was to begin with.

 

Whoa, de ju vu. Yes I've been here before. Yeah you should tell him. I didn't read your other thread but I'm going to so I know what's going on and that way I can be of more assistance.

 

Wait, I did read your other one. It was just so random, thats why I didn't remember it. You should tell him.

 

Perhaps if you told him NOW it might offset the hate he has for yall's city.

You'll NEVER Know unless you tell him.




I know that sounds strange w/it being all Optimistic and such... *s*

 

I don't know, how badly do you want to be with him?? Because if you REALLLLY want him, you might be more willing to give up a few things. I'm not saying you should-I would never ask a woman to make a change like that for me-BUT, if they were willing to do such a thing, there would be no doubt in my mind that they truly love me.

I am kinda in that boat right now myself...I would probably give up all that I know to be with the woman in my life, if she would have me. And I would never think of it as losing out or anything..just trading one life for a better one.

I wish you best of luck either way, I hope it all works out for you.

 

i would give up living here and my friends, family, etc... to move with him. like i said, my uncle has a job for me there if i ever go. but i don't know if he'd have me. i doubt it. his life is too messed up right now to probably have room for me

 

if his life is that messed up....dont you think he deserves a happy ending?....
and if he wont have you, im sure itl brighten up his day if just a little to know someone amazing is thinking about him.....

just call him and tell him everything....if you dont youl regret it for the rest of your life....or at least a couple of years

btw....you look like you could use a happy ending too.....

and yea....i might be 16, and macho, but i can see a cinderella story waiting to happen.....

hope it all works out....

 

Yeah, thats true, you can never go wrong with that.

You also must have some hope for the two of you getting together considering you have it planned out if you do decide to tell him. So basically your just not sure if you want to leave?

 

You do deserve a happy ending, clem, and if things don't work out with him, I'm sure you will love again.

 

no, its not that i don't want to leave, its that i don't know if he'll have me. i don't know how he feels. we've never discussed it. i believe i said that.

 

youll never know....unless you take a chance....

and love(im assuming thats what this is)is definatly something to take a chance for

 

You have to take the chance. I know it's a hard thing to do (from experience) but if you don't find out how he feels, you WILL regret it!

I had the same experience many years ago with my first love and I finally got up enough nerve to tell him how I felt. It didn't turn out like I would have wanted it to, but at least I found out how he felt and I was able to move on and get on with my life. And now, many years later, I am happy with how my life has turned out, and I'm glad I had that closure.
Good luck, and I hope it works out for you!

 

Hate to just echo in, but, you gotta take the chance and tell him how you feel. Think of what you could lose if you don't....

 

well i'm making him a going away gift... i'm making him a nice necklace and put together some photos of myself which were taken the day him and i met and i wrote a letter to go with it that says how i feel. i'm giving him it a week before he leaves so we'll have time to talk about it.

 

What!? You have said this? This is from Russia as gift from not shaved Manda. Shave Manda! You will do this?



Beat self,


Stoshowik

 

you make no sense.
get a life.

 

What have you got to lose by telling him if he's going to move?

and what do you have to gain?

 

i don't know either way.

 

The longer you put off saying something, the harder it is for him to change his decisions. Give him more time... don't wait for a bit, then tell him. If you wait long enough, he has no chance to change his plans (if he can) and then you're in deep.

 

I agree with everyone else

GO FOR IT

there is so much more to gain than there is to lose

what bad can come of you telling him your feelings?