I can't seem to find myself interested in only one person...I mean, I date people and I can't seem to only be with them...In other words, im a cheater... I dont really tell anyone, then again who would? I'll confess that when i was with my ex of 3 1/2 years, i slept with at least 8 other people. Is there anyway to stop this?
Yea there are a couple of ways to stop it. One, don't get involved in monogamous relationships. Just let those you date know up front that way you don't have to feel guilty about hurting people. Two, you are still young so don't rush into commitment but when you do honor it. If you have to sleep with someone else so bad then you are not in love and what sense does a committed relationship have? If you must sleep with another then break off the relationship you are in. If you can do these two things then you are not a cheater, problem solved.