Im single since birth

Honestly, I have not experience yet having a relationship with someone... sometimes, im curious on it but no one has an effort to court me even my friends who are boys.. One of the reasons I guess is maybe they think that Im still young as what others thought me as well my innocent face.. I dont even have no attitude problem most especially socializing with others... what other factors do you think the reasons? below is my pic and i hope you can judge some other reasons why im still single since birth


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Nothing outwardly, I would hit on you. You have sexy eyes.

 

sometimes it just happens..finding someone to have a relationship with takes time..as ucan tell fromthe above poster, its not hard to find horneyguys willing to hit on u..or anyone.. but to really find someone ucomnnect with its far more difficult.
sometimes it takes years..theres nothing at al wrong with you, just be patient, & be yourself, & one day you'll just connect with someone & that will be that

justout of curiusitythough, how old are ya?
i'm guessing 21? but hard to guess

 

bad luck?

I didn't have a girl show any interest in me whatsoever, until I was 15, at which I didn't realize it quite yet

then I didn't have any other girls show interest in me until I was 17, and more than one showed interest at once, leaving me to deny one

thass pretty bad luck too if you ask me

my brother didn't have any girl show interest in him until he was 19, and that was only a sexual experience, he didn't have an actual relationship with a girl until he was about 22

 

Im 23 years old already....

 

try making yourself up? Not that you have to... or should have to but it does send out vibes saying I'm available (or at least I want you to think so...). And it's alittle fun making yourself up sexy. Put your hair up, put on alittle mascara, an outfit that shows off your curves, and go out there with confidence and they should be banging down the door.

or maybe it's cultural. Do you live in the US?

 

Im not a US citizen but rather I live in the Philippines

 

are you shy? do you let yourself go out there and meet guys?

 

Im quite shy meeting new girls but not for boys... In fact, I feel comfortable meeting new guys.. it's just I think that my sex appeal isn't great as others

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i'm single since birth too...
you're gorgeous girl just be confident in that
maybe what the problem is guys think of you as a friend more than a girlfriend...
dressing up sexy could help...but make sure you feel your best because thats the important part and the rest will come

 

boo

why's everyone tellign her to dress up sexy?

I think that is terrible
our society really sucks


you will not attract the right guy for you by acting like someone you are not

be you

 

I agree.

 

I agree too!
You look just fine. And you sound like a sweetie. Maybe your Mr. Right is shy too? I know it is hard, but really I would try not to worry about it too much. Enjoy being single for awhile The only thing I can think of, is that if you are always worrying about meeting the right guy you might scare him away when he does come along. He might think you're desperate and run the other way!
love,
mom

 

before anything else, I would like to express my deepest gratitude for all of you for your replies... I greatly appreciate it..

yeah! I agree with you too... As a matter of fact, as much as possible, I want to act for who really am I and not according to the society or even what other people expect from me... and I will greatly appreciate a guy who will accept me for who I am...

Im not too worried about meeting my right guy... Im just wondering that no one ever had crush/admire on me eversince... and the main reason why Im interested for meeting my right guy is that I want someone whom I can lean on and trust for happy & sad moments.. someone who will give me enough courage and would whisper to my ears "Im here for you"

 

pssst..i'm here for u

actualy we all are

 

I'm sure there have been guys with crushes on you, that just never said anything

 

thanx...

 

your most welcome

 

p.s. I don't think there's anything wrong with making yourself up sexy if it makes YOU feel good. But never do it just to "please" anyone else. Sorry if that was misinterrupted.

I don't think anyone really knows what to tell you. You seem perfectly fine. Maybe you hang with the wrong crowd? What do the girls look/act like that your male friends are into? And are they really into them or are they just trying to get IN them? lol

 

forget dressing sexy - that just means you can be laid. I bet you'd look really good in bright vibrant colors! Wear something that makes you feel good about yourself. You are so beautiful, wear beautiful clothes to enhance your beauty. Do things that make you feel happy and energized, full of life. Enjoy yourself, have fun, and potential partners will flock to you wanting to share in your joy of life!