O.K. Let me start by saying I am super sensitive to otehr peoples vibes... my bf, I am mainly talking about... I notice if I make him laugh, smile, etc... REcently we have just not been connecting... We have been together for 2 1/2 years now, live together, and have 2 children. But, I am eccentric, he's not.. He just seems so monotone, and unenthused when I hang out with him... And not like that ever, when he's with other people. I know, it's his home, he can relax, but it just sucks right now... I wonder if I worry too much about his reaction... about what we are doing... how we are interacting... even when I'm not being consious about it though, it still happens. ANy insight?? (He puffs, I do not)
why dont you ask and have a nice talk with him? simple conversation is enough for you to know why he acts like that... If doesnt like, then give him some space... leave him alone first!
I think that in long term relationships it is easy to become complacent to your spouse. It probably doesn't mean he doesn't love you or doesn't like your company. If you are still having good times together and going out occasionally I wouldn't worry too much about it. If not then just sit down and have a discussion with him. It is can be easy to get the wrong idea if you are not communicating effectively.
