I am currently at School and really fancy this Boy. I am unsure of whether he is Gay or not? I obviously want him to be as he is intensely cute. He does not know I’m Gay. He Frequently asks to cuddle me or other boys. He does this an a funny way. Whether this is done in a humorous way or just a way for him to touch other boys I do not know? He also is continually touching Boys (in a funny, annoying fashion). He does this in public when it is a one to one basis i have not seen him do it. The biggest clue though is that he gets very aggressive (voice) when you even suggest in any way that he is Gay. For example to my mind cuddling another boy even in a humorous fashion is provocative enough, if you reciprocate in any way he clams up. My thinking is that he does these things because he doesn’t want to admit even to himself that he is Gay. He has stuck up for me sometimes but sometimes does not. when we are alon he listens attenitvely to what i say. Or I think he does. I cannot risk asking him out and am finding it hard controlling my feelings for him. I would love any help at all especially body language tips. Such as if when I am talking to him what would he do if he fancied
Mabye you should try and get to the level that would allow you to talk to him about it. And while you're doing this, you might pick up hints or subtle indications that will show you if he is gay..?
