Crush on an older woman

BRAVO !!!!! good for you girl !!!!!

 

You know me, I'm dying to pull!

 

I'm pulling for ya girl!

 

I saw her yesterday and today. I was outside and she was walking with some other girls and she put her arm up as if to say "Give me 5". I was talking to someone so I didn't put my hand out to catch hers in time. Felt a bit of a dipstick.

Today, I saw her again and she made a jokey comment about me smoking outside like she often does and all I could do was make a little comment back. I keep thinking of things to say to her when I next see her, but when I do it's like my mind goes completely blank and I end up smiling and laughing with her instead. The other thing that went through my mind was "Do I really fancy her?" It's like I want her to know but I don't - if that makes sense!

Is it normal to feel like this when you fancy someone?? To get all tongue tied and doubt whether you do actually like them? These crush feelings haven't happened too often in my lifetime so I don't know if this is normal or if I'm confused!

 

It makes sense .....it happens that way...but I havent a clue why.

 

I keep telling myself to be as normal as possible around her, but it's easier said than done. Also when I see her I'm often with people so I can't flirt or anything which is so frustrating!!

 

Eye contact is a great way to flirt when people are around.....she will know what you mean....believe me !!!

 

One thing I have a tendency to do is I will spot her in the distance coming towards me say and I will give the impression I haven't seen her. Then as soon as she is close by I will make eye contact and say something - sometimes I'll give her the wink. I'm sure she picks up on the fact that I notice her presence immediately. As soon as she comes into the canteen I see her straightaway. It's like I'm never oblivous to her being around. A couple of times I've been thinking about her and then she's suddenly appeared - mind you she's always on my mind so I don't feel spooked or anything. I like to think she may sense I fancy her from what I've just said. She's not stupid but I don't know how intuitive she is.

 

Don't be slow. Ask her if she's available, and tell her you've no-one to spend the evening with tonight, and say you'd like her for company. Ask her "your place or mine?"