Ok let me post the whole story... I hope someone will respond... Ok, so I went to the beach last week and i met this girl, she was amazing ((Katie)). By amazing I mean she was so much like me, but not so much like me that it was weird.. So the first day she was really quiet, but her sister ((Steph)) talked a lot. But then the more we hung out, the more she talked.. Then the next day I went to the boardwalk with them, with my brother as well. We would be walking and and Katie would always be trying to stand next to me. I didn't think much of it because I thought she just wanted to hear me or something. So then that night we went to the under 21 club. She had never danced with anyone like that before. So Steph showed her, and I asked if she wanted to dance.. We danced for an hour and a half straight... then when we took a break, we started to walk over to get something to drink, and she grabs my hand, and we are holding hands. So we walk over to the 'bar' and get a water, and between the two of us the thing is gone within one minutes time. So after that we started dancing again, and she started getting more physical in her dancing. Such as moving my hands from her hips either down lower, or up higher. So after the club we sat on the bus back up to our condo and held hands and she rested her head on my shoulder. The next day I woke up rather early, around 11, and asked Katie if she wanted to go to the beach with me. So we went down to the beach for awhile and were laying out and talking. Then we went down to the boardwalk again, but with her whole family and i rode in the van with them. But on the boardwalk we just walked and kissed and stuff. Then on the way back to the condos we were thinking about watching the sunrise. So Steph, Katie, and I went out at around 3:30amish. Then we went back up because Steph had a bad feeling about being on the beach. She thought someone was gonna try to hurt us... So anyway we go back in, and just sit on our balcanies and talk to eachother. So then 530am rolls by and we meet around back and go to the beach. It was always a dream to her to walk on the beach at night, and watching the sunrise on the beach. And so after we saw it we were laying on the beach kissing and stuff. Then she gets on top of me, and of course me, being a 15 year old boy, poped a boner and was just sitting there. I could tell she liked it because she would look into my eyes like nothing was wrong, but at the same time we had to be caucious.. And then we starting kissing and i just forgot about the whole world. It felt like it was just me and her. Then we starting kissing and I felt her touching my dick. So I started rubbing her and I heard her moan a few times. Then we stopped kissing and she looked in my eyes and it felt like she and I melted through the sand. Then after about 15 minutes of talking she got back on top of me and was just sitting there looking at me and looking at the ocean. Next thing you know her sister comes down to the beach. So she rolls off of me and thats pretty much the story. The next day we just hung on each other and I kissed her a lot. I know this story is long and seems lustful, but it seems like I got something out of it. And it feels good, even now, that I havent seen her in a few days, I still feel great about when I was around her. So am I in love? Or did I just like the lust? I talk to her everyday and she felt the exact same way. So whats up here?
Vactom is in lust, or maybe some will call it puppy love, but s-headstoner is correct, it ain't love. If it was, he would be sick, heart broken, and wouldn't get of the phone long enough to post his story here.
Vatcom, don't worry about analyzing it. Just enjoy. Putting a label on it doesn't mean it's better or worse than before. You've been around her for a friggin' couple of days! Give it some time, for cryin' out loud! You'll know soon enough. For now, just go with it. And don't let the little head do the thinking for the big head.
nah, if you never have experienced love, you will confuse lust for love. I agree you will know if its love. But you wont be sure til it rips out your heart.
truthfully you are young BUT i fully bellieve in love at first sight so maybe you are in love. like some other person said.. people in love dont do the same things. I think you can fall in love at any age. Being you were down the shore are you ever going to see her again? long distance relationships honestly dont work weell unless you knw for sure you are in love and at that point you both really need to want it to work. dont let what others say sway the way feel/felt. only you felt it and can decide for yourself what it is. my aunt and uncle have been dating since they were 14 and they are married... so hunny love happens at any age. to the guy that thinks you arent in love because you took time to write this maybe hasnt expierenced love himself. it is confus9ng and the fact that you asked advice shows your maturity and how much you care for this girl. well good luck to you.
Injoy your times with her. Dont ever beleave that such moments in your life are easy to come by. All of them are blessings you should injoy to the fullest. As another said.. dont worry about analyzing any of it. What it is or is not does not matter. What counts is how you both feel at the moment. Let your eyes do your talking and try to please her. If its ment to be love. You wont need to ask anyone. There will come some moment when like a baseball bat it will slam you up side your head and look out. Love brings alot of pain. But its a good thing. With it you'll see the world itself in a whole new light.
