Ok, i'm not the most comftorble person with sex yet, i've had an odd up bringing and i've been uncomftorble about sex for years blah blah. but im getting over it. When my girlfriend gives me oral, for some reason i just can't feel anything, and if i can, i can't seem to reach orgasm or anything. If she uses her hand i can feel it alot more and can reach orgasm easilly, even though sometimes I can't. Alot of the time I'm kind of worrying why I can't feel anything or, i dunno, just thought i'd ask. Anyone had the same problems?
Well... Just stop worrying about it. If you're worrying, you're not focusing on enjoying the experience. Just lay back, relax, and enjoy, even if you don't reach orgasm.
Yup. Women can blow me for hours and nothing. Many girlfriends have tried, stating that they could get any guy to cum. It took my wife years to get it done. I know what my problem was. So it may not be that the girl can't do it right, it just might be that the guy (due to up-bringing or something that happened in the past) cannot relax enough to let it happen. Don't dwell on it, it can drive the girl away. Just tell her it's great fore-play. No big deal.
thanks for replying prozacbunny. Thanks! I know i'm quite uncomftorble about it and have trouble getting into it. What do you advise? just relaxing? thinking of just relaxing jsut makes me think it won't make a difference. She's not going to leave, we're too close for her to leave over something like that.
Relaxing is the best thing I can come up with too... Let it become a portion of your foreplay routine, but maybe switch things up so tha it doesn't get dull. Even if you don't cum, through her orally, you should still be able to get some satisfaction out of it.
