I fucking hate my boyfriend. Ok last night I was at a powder puff ((chick)) football game at the highschool with my buddies and my friend Austin calls me "Yeah dude did Dana call you? Well he just called me and he found out from his docter that he has lung cancer. He's really depressed about it. Just wanted to let you know." And I flipped out. I was like almost about to cry. Dana calls and conferms this news. I now am really crying. My buddies are trying to be all loving and shit.I'm worried and shit. I stay like this all night. I figure I should hang out with him today to get his mind off the shit he's dealing with. So we're walking and he's talking to Austin and laughing. Some how it slips out that he was just joking. I'm pissed. Like really really pissed. So we are walking and he's saying he's sorry 10000000 plus times and swearing on his -insert family member name-'s grave that he is super sorry and that he feels like a dick and he was drunk. I was questioning breaking up with him. I probably should have. But Nick perswaded me to stay with him because he made me realize that I have deeper feelings for him, which I think I do now. Then Austins telling me that Dana wanted to break up with me last night. sigh. I'm so fucking pissed at him still, I'm like shaking. It was the worst thing anyone has done to me in quite sometime. What do you guys think? Should I have done what I did or should I have broken up with him?
Under "true love" eh? Might've been better placed uner the relationships forum. Anyways. You're 13. He's probably around that age. General jackassery is the name of the game for 95% of people around that age. Ok, maybe only 93%. If you aren't happy with him, yeah, break up. I mean, unforgiveably/won't change unhappy, not a temporary situation. If you can forgive him, be happy with him again, I wouldn't necessarily do that. Ultimately it's your decision.
it figures that hes only around your age. immaturity is to be expected at that age but for a boy to lie about death? i'd dump him.
* * * I'm not an MD or anything, but so far as I know lung cancer is developed by people middle aged or older who have exposure over a period of time to a carcinogen such as tobacco smoke. I don't hear that much about teenagers or young adults with lung cancer. Correct me if I'm wrong.
Dump his hateful ass, tell him it's for another guy, and when he's all depressed about it tell him it's just a joke and beg him to forgive you. Turn-about is fair play, even when peoples' feelings are at stake.
Meh! People at *any* age can say hurtful things, hurt each other, be hurt, play nasty jokes. I've met mature, thoughtful, loving TEN year olds and immature, horrible SIXTY year olds. If someone wants to date...whatever age...then that's great. It's a great [and different] experience through life, like any experience one we grow from, learn from and explore ourselves from - and it's FUN. As for your problem Mad Hatter... It's really up to you to decide if you can trust this guy. Personally, I'd say honesty works a long, long way in any relationship...honest, clear communication. Also, decide what you're prepared to put up with and what you're not. It's up to YOU if you want to give him a second chance. If you do though, I'd have a conversation with him along these lines [just a suggestion]: YOU: The joke you made the other night rerally upset me. While I can take a joke, a joke about death and you dying crosses the line of what I can laugh at. While I realise you were drunk, you still CHOSE to get drunk and make that joke. Being drunk doesn't excuse what you did at all. I am willing to give you ONE more chance, but if you hurt me or disrespect my feelings like that again, our relationship is over. Then make sure he gets it. Make sure he REALLY REALLY gets why it hurt you. I don't mean nag him, I mean ask him "do you know why I am upset?" and get him to tell you. Make sure you're on the same page! The above is IF you decide to give him a second chance by the way. That is very much up to you.
To hell with his face, make his whole fucking head explode. Get rid of him, he sounds like a dick. Wow, this might be my most angry post ever....hooray! Time for a party!
I find the anger from some people interesting. It sounds like this guy made a silly joke because he's immature and was drunk....not to be deliberately hurtful. It also sounds like he is sorry. Being immature isn't wrong, especially for a 13-year old boy! If Mad Hatter decides not to be with him, that's up to her. But either way...shouldn't she be able to forgive him and move on from the hurt? Forgiveness is a powerful lesson, whether the relatonship continues is a different matter. Revenge and hurting back does nothing...it's lashing out because of pain you've been caused, which causes someone else pain, and then they cause someone else pain...and so on. It's advocating that revenge and hurting because you've "been hurt" is alright. An eye for an eye and the whole world goes blind.
dude, i remeber that, because he called you and told you that, the bon fire after the game was ruined because of your attitude, and then the next day we bitched at him sooooo fucking much it was funny
Why was he even thinking about breaking up with you? You are in a very akward relationship and he is clearly not for you.
