OK, there is long strory and some of it might seem irrelevant, but I kinda need a hand. About a year ago, I met this guy. I didn't get to see him for very long because we were at an international camp (Scouts) and he went home to Canada while I'm English. Anyway, I really like him, I couldn't stop thinkking about him and everything. Since then, I've gone out with someone (I was never dating this Canadain dude by the way), but the guy I was dating never really took my mind off the Canadian guy. That was just to show you how much I really liked the Canadian guy. Now there's this other guy who I've known for almost a year and I'm really good friends with and he's got a girlfriend (now you all know where this is going!). I'm stupid enough to try anything at all while he's got a girlfriend, but he's taken my mind off the Canadian dude, I don't think about his as much as I used to do, but I still think about him. But! I don't know if the guy over here likes me back, sometimes I think he does and sometimes I think he doesn't. Is there any way to tell other than asking him? And if he stops going out with his girlfriend, is it OK for a girl to ask a guy out? And what do I do if he says no? Sorry if I bored you, but if you got to the end of this, any comments would be greatly appreciated.
That really depends on the guy. Some guys can take your body language and run with it, others you'd have to ask out yourself.
I know, but I'm really rubbish at telling if someone likes me or not, I rely on my friends, but only two of them know I like him. I also think that he fancies my best mate, I only found this out fter I made that first post. However, she doesn't like him more than as a friend
It would be fine. So what if he says no. Men have had to deal with rejection for a long time. Just as I would tell a man, don't take a no personally and move on.
Do you think that every girl that a guy asked out is just suddenly not around anymore? Some people can't stand the idea of rejection and fear embarrassment, these people miss out on a lot. So what if you see him again? He won't think any less of you. Do you think less of guys who you turn down?
