what do guys really think about women in relationships with younger guys?

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  1. nimh

    nimh ~foodie~

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    if a women had been in a serious relationship with a guy 5 to 10 yrs younger than her would it bother you? why? why not?
     
  2. KyndVeggie4Peace

    KyndVeggie4Peace -[ in.bloom ]-

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    I dated a woman who was 7 years older than me ...

    It was one of the most fun relationships I've ever had. :D
     
  3. nimh

    nimh ~foodie~

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    rar! thanks! :)
     
  4. KyndVeggie4Peace

    KyndVeggie4Peace -[ in.bloom ]-

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    Ahaha, don't sound so delighted to hear from me. :p

    I guess it worked out between us because she did not act her age at all ... she acted much more like a 20 year old than a 27 year old. At the same time, I tend to be a little more mature, and act more like a 25 year old.

    It all just balanced out. ;)
     
  5. nimh

    nimh ~foodie~

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    i guess chronological age doesnt always mean much. life experiences for pple can differ greatly etc
     
  6. AerialReaver

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    hell no, the girl I like right now, is like 6 years older than me.
     
  7. crummyrummy

    crummyrummy Brew Your Own Beer Lifetime Supporter

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    I say good for em. But, I also think maturity levels could make may december romances crumble.
    I have no experience in this matter.
     
  8. kissya

    kissya Head Mistress

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    Do you want some experience in this matter?? ;)
     
  9. spooner

    spooner is done.

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    i dated a 25 year old for a month and a half when i was 19.

    all i can say is: disaster.
     
  10. Piney

    Piney Lifetime Supporter Lifetime Supporter

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    Its a good thing. My Princess is 4 yrs older, its smooth sailing.
     
  11. clementinexo

    clementinexo hip *****s sucks.

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    its okay sometimes unless the woman is a total cougar, then i just find it really disturbing and think that woman is pretty insecure.
     
  12. jacobfredjo

    jacobfredjo Senior Member

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    i wouldnt mind at all being with an older girl. in fact i know id really like it. Mature, knowledgable women are very good for being in a relationship with. Ofcourse she can be those things even if she is the same age/younger but i think we all know most girls act younger than they really are (not all). But yes, older women is a prized possesion for us guys lol
     
  13. OMD

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    I dont think age really matters. But i think theres a point when it can get "errrm"
     
  14. nimh

    nimh ~foodie~

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    i had to google cougar, not a term i'm familiar with, and wow... who knew! from what i know about cougar's now, i dont think it has anything to do with insecurity, it seems like more of a numbers game. if the guys in their age bracket are hooking up with younger women, then the 'cougars' dont have much choice other than to hook up with younger guys.
     
  15. Piney

    Piney Lifetime Supporter Lifetime Supporter

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    Mmmmm Cougar, Rarawar
     
  16. garfbag

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    Agree!!! I think it's all about mix and match... just becuase a lot of older women didn't work out with younger guys, doesn't mean yours wouldn't work... it's really case by case....
     
  17. honeyhannah

    honeyhannah herbuhslovuh

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    I've certainly known some relationships that are situated in this way that have worked out really well.

    The only bad part I've seen is when the man uses the woman because she's older and will take care of him... but I think it's perfectly fine.
     
  18. nimh

    nimh ~foodie~

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    okay, here's another spin on the original question... what do older guys think about women who have been involved in relationships with younger guys?
     
  19. fexurbis

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    Whatever...
     
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