if a women had been in a serious relationship with a guy 5 to 10 yrs younger than her would it bother you? why? why not?
I dated a woman who was 7 years older than me ... It was one of the most fun relationships I've ever had.
Ahaha, don't sound so delighted to hear from me. I guess it worked out between us because she did not act her age at all ... she acted much more like a 20 year old than a 27 year old. At the same time, I tend to be a little more mature, and act more like a 25 year old. It all just balanced out.
I say good for em. But, I also think maturity levels could make may december romances crumble. I have no experience in this matter.
its okay sometimes unless the woman is a total cougar, then i just find it really disturbing and think that woman is pretty insecure.
i wouldnt mind at all being with an older girl. in fact i know id really like it. Mature, knowledgable women are very good for being in a relationship with. Ofcourse she can be those things even if she is the same age/younger but i think we all know most girls act younger than they really are (not all). But yes, older women is a prized possesion for us guys lol
i had to google cougar, not a term i'm familiar with, and wow... who knew! from what i know about cougar's now, i dont think it has anything to do with insecurity, it seems like more of a numbers game. if the guys in their age bracket are hooking up with younger women, then the 'cougars' dont have much choice other than to hook up with younger guys.
Agree!!! I think it's all about mix and match... just becuase a lot of older women didn't work out with younger guys, doesn't mean yours wouldn't work... it's really case by case....
I've certainly known some relationships that are situated in this way that have worked out really well. The only bad part I've seen is when the man uses the woman because she's older and will take care of him... but I think it's perfectly fine.
okay, here's another spin on the original question... what do older guys think about women who have been involved in relationships with younger guys?