i got in a big fight with someone today and they told me i was the reason my last roommate moved out because i'm strict and apparently hard to live with and this person made it sound like my last roommate was an angel. my last roommate was a fucking coke addicted depressed skank who slept around, poked holes in condoms (sabotaged men into knocking her up), was a prostitute of her own free will, never did any housework and was lazy and yet i am the bad person??? i fucking HATE people. my ex roommate is a liar and a fake. she told her parents i was the bad one. i'm about ready to finally call her lazy parents and tell them the truth about their slut of a daughter. so fucking mad.
Okay, Clementine... is it your ex-roommate you're mad at, or the one who said things about you? I mean venting is cool... it prevents major explosions. But figure out who you're angry at first. Do you not like your former roommate's parents? Are they the ones saying how sweet their daughter is and that you're the problem? If you're angry, go to the source and then if you want to, unload on them, but make sure that the one who takes the brunt is the one who deserves it. You're a smart girl... use your intelligence to accomplish something with your anger, or it's just wasted emotion.
It sounds like you have unfortuneately ran into some bad people. Im sorry to hear of your troubles, but the truth is we all have roomate issues. You just happened to have a coke addicted whore as one, and that sucks. Try and find someone to spend some time with who will respect you for the person you are... The most important thing here is to try and stay positive, and optimistic for a fruitful future. This is just a "bump in the road" so to speak, and your just gonna have to ride through it and try your best to overcome this barrier. Once again, im sorry to hear you have had a bad roomate, i know how annoying it is to live your life that way. Living by yourself is actually really nice. Anyways, I hope you have a good day tommorow, and find something new to keep your mind on. Remember, your a good person who is apparently trying to live a normal life. Try not to let someone lower than you ruin your day...It will be better soon i promise. By the way, that pic in your sig is adorable...
I dont hate people, I just feel better when they arent around - Mickey Rourke in Barfly, one of my fave quotes. People do piss me off tho, and they can be tough to deal with - roommates and former roomates even more so in some ways. You just have to try to rise above and not let it drive you down to their level. As for what they say, I am a big fan of letting anyone say anything they want. Most folks think what they want to anyways, and it can only add to your legend!
If these are not important people in your life having these misconceptions then you are just getting yourself worked up for nothing. Who cares if they think their daughter is the good one? Who doesn't?
what did you and "someone" fighting about?? How is this got brought up?? "someone" obviously doesn't know anything... or doesn't know the truth... or choose to ignore the truth... it's thanksgiving... just forget about it...
1. Who is the person you got into a fight with? Do they really fucking matter to you in the grand scheme of things? 2. Leave her parents out of it -- calling them will only make YOU look bad. They will not believe what you tell them about their daughter and will paint you as some psycho liar. Don't misread that to mean that I'm suggesting you're not perfectly justified, but where do you think this girl learned to be the way she is? Venting is healthy, especially if you can limit it to close friends and random strangers online. When you get a chance, calmly, cooly give your side of the story, but don't call her names or get worked up. That's really fucking hard to do -- been there, done that in dealing with a bad bad bad roommate situation. But, if you can pull that off, it winds up making you look better in the end, especially if she's talking seriously exaggerated shit. Going off on her, calling her a whore, and especially calling her parents would just lower you to her level -- you want everyone to realize that you are above that.
