well my girlfriend and i have been goin out for 8 months now. everything is pretty much fine i guess, but for some reason she's always mad when i hang around her sister. her sister is completely obssessed with me, nothing can be done about that. but my main question is what can i do to avoid getting her mad, i've been trying to change big time for her but this is one thing i don't know what to do about. any suggestions are welcome.
totally ignore the sister, give her the cold shoulder, brush her off. It's not your problem, it's your girlfriend's problem. Stay out of it, and keep far far far away from the sister at all costs.
I'd be pissed as hell if my boyfriend continued to hang out with my sister if I knew she was obsessed with him. Do you honestly think you could restrain yourself if she made a move on you? Even down the line? If so, your gf needs to know that. Keep the lines of communication open. Like Mamaboogie said, it's her problem, not yours. But I think it should be a small sacrifice to stop hanging out with the sister to make the girlfriend happy. On the other hand, you say you've already made a lot of sacrifices for her. Do you really even want to be with someone who tries to change you that much?
ignore the sister and don't change for anyone. if they don't like you for who you are than they aren't worth your time.
I think this says it all. You just have to decide which one of them means more to you. Life is not always fair even if it should be.
It doesn't sound like you have to change who you are to make your girlfriend happy....you just have to NOT hang out with her sister. It's not rocket science.
introduce the idea of... "hey... how about I date both you?"... just joking... stop hanging out with her... get your gf to talk to her sister and talk to her sister yourself... of why you are not hanging out with her anymore... I mean they are sisters... they should both know... and make sure you tell your gf that you are not interested in her sis... oh man... that is going to be awkward during thanksgiving dinner...
ok why do u wanna hang out with the sis anyways? if shes obsessed with u & your just not interested why would u wanna spend time with her & complicate things? are u tryin to lead on the sis in case the gf dont work out?
if you care for her, you'll forget and not do anything that would make her hurt.. you should respect her feelings...
