Hi guy's I was wondering what type of oral you all like? By that I mean technique wise?? It's been a while since I have given oral and am very nervous about it and I think I forgot how to :& :& :& Any help would be great!?!?!?!?!
It's like chewing gum, you never forget how. Just for starters tho, I prefer to go first. Leaving the best (you) for last. Repeat after me, "I'll follow your lead." Hint: tongue up and down the underside whilst pulling and heavily sucking. Hint two: swallow.
Personally, alot of suction while getting head drives me nuts. Also if the girl knows to rub my balls(haha) I have problems breathing because of the intensity.
Suck it.........SUCK IT REAL GOOD!!!!!!!!! DO DO DO DO DO DO DO DOOO DOO DOOO DOOO. AW YEAH, SUCK IT REAL GOOD.
Oh snap, eye contact is another. Ive had girls make blowjobs so unsexy and awkward by asking me too many things and shit, that I couldnt even cum. Now thats awkward.
eye contact.. licking or sucking the balls. licking the shaft.. and use your hand too. let him use his hands on your head to control it if thats what he wants. DONT RAKE! watch out for those teeth, lol
Yes I was going to ask that also, about teeth I do no some guy's that do like it but others thta don't how about you guy's?
It might depend on guys. Im not circumsized, so breathing on my head even makes me shiver. some guys might not find teeth painful if they're not sensitive.
it really depends on the guy. personally, i would rather just have normal sex if she can't get past at least halfway down on me....the more she can take, the better, in my opinion. not all guys are like this - as i understand it a good many prefer just having the action focused around the glans (tip of the penis). different strokes for different blokes....
Rub his ass, You don't have to penatrate it unless he likes that, but play around the outside of his anus and that will (might) bring him off quicker and harder. This, with the other advice above, should make him appreciate your efforts a lot.
like nesta for me, i need the shaft to be concentrated on mainly not the head, the head is too sensitive to be the main focus. eye contact can be good and it can be a little weird it depends on the bj...if its a dominant bj, "im in charge, now sit there and cum in my mouth you dirty pig" then eye contact is good...making sure his attention is focused on you. if its a submissive blow job "yes master, i will pleasure you with my mouth if thats what pleases you" then i prefer no eye contact...a slave should never look its master in the eye, certianly not while im in the vulnerable position of having an 'oh god that feels good' face on
gah, that made me all, anyways... The main thing with a bj is to enjoy what you're doing. And don't be afraid of saliva. Wet n sloppy and really being into it seems to be a universal pleasure, from what I've heard/experienced. (well, unless you're doing a rape/forced fantasy I suppose, heehee)
Judging by the fact that you're just getting back into it, I doubt you'll be doing much sub/dom playing for the moment, so let's keep it straightforward... First, hope that you're guy's responsive. If he gives you feedback, either verbal or simply sounds, follow the lead. Go with what he seems to respond to. Guys are all different. There's no magic sequence guaranteed to get him crazy, but I'll offer the following probabilities: ihmurria is spot on. Enjoying yourself is top of the list. A woman who is into what she's doing is impossible to beat, regardless if it's giving head or any other act you care to name. A gal who sounds as if she's just loving every moment is going to get a much better reaction from the guy (unless he's just a jerk... there's no predicting them). Saliva is good, too. Eye contact is very sexy. Use of the hands to help out is almost mandatory. Consider that for a lot of guys, the pleasure zone starts at the head and keeps going all the way back to the anus. The balls, the prostate... the whole area is good. But remember that technique is secondary. Enjoying yourself and letting him know you are is the most important.
For me, it's pretty simple: THE WOMAN MUST BE ENJOYING HERSELF AS MUCH AS I AM!!!!! If she isn't into it, it just kills the mood. As for technique, I like the idea of a woman savoring every inch, top to bottom, and down the sides, sucking and nibbling the tip, all that good stuff. Like I said, you can tell if she is in the mood, and that makes all the difference in the world.
All guys are different. I've read through this and I enjoy some of things some guys have said here, but not others. The best thing to do is just ask him. Its like that with all aspects of sex though. I find it gets better with practice as you learn your partners body and share your desires.
