fascinating, addictive and sooo exciting, bondage, discipline,sadism and masochism is an alternative sexual way of being. info is available from a long-time adherent - repro-bait, here on hipforums, or email onewelshman@gmail.com.
great answer!!!! alsoi'd like to add a lil bit of a warning to anyone who might concider emailing this guy bdsm can be harmless fun, but, it can also become a severe illness i'll tell u a lil story bout someone i met few years ago in a chatroom who was allinto the bdsm lifestyle she was a slave to this total asshole master..hed completely control her because she was weak..shed be given punnishments for failing to cum on command & assignments to completely degrade & dehumanize herself ok so lil more backstory she was in her 30's but her father had beatten the word no out of her vocabulary..she was completely unable to say or even type those 2 simple letters..so shed never been able to say no to anyone & was severely abused ok so, how bad could it get? all this guys torture was over the net, they hadnt even met yet..but he still had her so under control she was willing tothrow her life away literaly..this sick freak made her promice that if he asked, shed leave her children (all under 10) to fend for themselves..meet him in a private out of the way place like the woods or somewhere hidden (she was never allowed to reveal his identity either) and, she even had to promice that if he asked her to..shed kill herself and..she was fully prepared to do whatever he asked it took 18 hours a day of intencive therapy to make a lil progress, which hed erase in 15 minutes of punnishment & torture finaly we broke the spell after about 6 weeks of very slow deprogramming & making only small progresses, i had another freind contact him..a very beautiful girl..& she had him actualy in tears begging for a kiss ..oike a pathetic child..& then she got his picture (which he refused to ever show his slave) and he was a really ugly disgusting huge fat slob.. the picture & him crying like a pathetic child broke the spell & she was able to finaly say no for the 1st time in 30 years 2 years later & she had her life back..was in a great relationship & her mind ws stronger & more healthy then ever bdsm may be a fun game to some..but it can be extremly dangerouse torture to others contacting any asshole who posts this sorta shit online is taking a severe risk.. not every case is as extreme as the 1 i described ofcourse..but the chance is always there that you get screwed up with a true psychopath..& torture goes from a fun exciting game to pure terror
our professional hugaholic is of course absolutely correct with his warning. there are so many wannabe masters, dominants et al in the scene, as there are female dominants as crazy as hell too, that anyone wanting to explore MUST be extremely careful and aware. however, having said the above.......with an experienced and stable dom/master/daddy whatever the male partner is called....the whole bdsm scene can and is for me, true R&R with total sexual fulfillment.
I'm into bdsm and I love it, but as hugaholic said: be careful and don't do anything you don't want to or your partner doesn't.