Help Me Out Here (long distance relationshhip)

I'm about 3 hours away from my gorgeous girlfriend on trains. I see her for a few days every week or two. When we're apart I really want to have sex with her and miss her alot. When we get together we have the BEST sex ever, but any times after that don't seem to have the same..."spark"

what's that about?

should i worry?

 

Yeah, it's called keeping your distance so you can build enough time in between to miss eachother.

 

Yea, and I should know about that. distance is hard sometimes, but it's only that much better when you finally are together.

 

ahhh, yeah it's really hard being so far apart.

So I shouldn't have anything to worry about? it's just because we've been apart so long?

 

Dont worry baby...love is able to span distance and time....if it was there before....it is there now..and if it werent..you would know !!!

 

When you are in Love..nothing else matters. You will go where you need to go, you will do what you have to do.

 

Love is a battlefield!

 

It sure is, but it can be worth all those mines and artillery.

 

Thankyou so much for the answers.

Seeing my gorgeousness in a few hours after 1 or 2 weeks. arghhhhhhhh Miss her so much.

Thanks again.

 

who said anything about love? certainly not the OP...
let me get this straight, you describe her as gorgeous and nothing else, and you really want to have sex with her and miss not having sex with her....when you get together you love the sex, but thats all you love and there is no spark besides the sex...so you go home and the cycle continues. seems to me like your in the relationship for the sex, nothing is wrong with that i dont think thats a bad thing per say, but if you look at it like that, perhaps you'll find the distance and time apart a little more bearable? or less...who knows.

 

i re read what i put and yeah, it may be prtrayed that way, but i really do care about her, not jsut putting it in her. She's everything ive ever wanted and needed in a friend and another being, she makes me laugh, we're more alike than i am with anyone else and ive never been happier. I worry about her safety when shes away from me.

I was explaining this from the angle of sex, because i thought the problem may lie in the actual sex.

 

When you put it that way, I know exactly where you're coming from.