I fantasize about being raped.

I have no idea why, but the thought of being pinned down while forcibly trying to get away and then being penetrated is very erotic for me, and I really don't know what to make of that. Is it something to worry about?

 

No....because if the real thing were to happen....I know you wouldnt enjoy it

 

rape fantasies arent uncommon, but theyre just fantasies about wild rough sex.. rape on the othrr hand is more a violent act & i doubt you fantasize about actual rape..
in the bedroom with someone u can trust..you can roleplay a rape fantasy
but if youd ever actualy be raped the reality would more then likely destroythe fantasy

are u normaly satisfied with sex in general?

 

Thats very true. I guess saying "rape" is the wrong term.

 

u're 17, any kind of sex would feel like rape

 

My problem is, and this is not going to sound very eloquent, I am always horny, even RIGHT after just having had sex which is a bummer. I have a lusty apetite, but I'm embarassed to talk to my boyfriend about this (especially because I'd rather he not be my boyfriend).

 

I can tell you right now that is a false statement.

 

im impressed by your arguments

 

Theres no need to be condescending or judgmental, and I should not have to justify myself or my actions on a true confessions forum.

 

ahh ok that gives me alot more insight
your dissatisfied withyour boyfreind & sounds like the sex is kinda boring especialy if your still horny after..fantasizing about wild crazy sex is just your mind &? body wanting more.. probly doesnt even gotta be crazy rough sex as long as it leaves u satisfied & exhausted..
so..if u wish he wasnt..why is he still
?

 

yea.. u tried to justify yourself by saying "thats a false statement".. lol it was funny

 

Because I haven't got the heart to break up (even though thats pretty selfish).

 

... and it WAS a false statement as I, a sexually active seventeen year old, have never felt like I was being raped.

 

umm ok..what are u 2 really arguing about?
seems like your picking at silly things..but theres gotta be something deeper that set u off

i dont wanna ouut your secrets or anything..but i have a feeling youd been through a rape around her age? if so, please just stop b itching about statements & just say what u really feel

or maybe im wrong

 

is it more then just the sex thats screwed up?

 

You dont get out much do you?

 

no, never. why?

 

I don't get that. why would any kind of sex feel like rape? I don't get it.

 

For what it's worth, fear (in women) does result in a degree of sexual arousal. The theory is that a sexually aroused body has a better chance of surviving a violent penetrative act intact rather than one that is not.

So maybe you want more excitement not being raped.

 

and just for the record, No this does not mean that someone who is raped wanted it. It's just a matter of uncontrolled physiological response.