biiiig problem .... plz help me

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  1. addicted

    addicted Member

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    hello pals,

    so i am 21 yrs old guy ..... and i am addicted to masturbation ..... i have been over-masturbating for like 5 years , sometimes i do it everyday ..... about 2 or 3 times a day ....

    so recently i have been suffering from weak erection .... and sometimes i watch something sexy on TV but i dont get turned on ..... so is that normal .... will i get back to my strong pleasing erections if i stop masturbating for a while ? or will this be permanent ..... ?

    i am really terrified that the damage will be irreversible , i wanna get married and live normal life .....

    does anyone have similar experience .... plz answer me
     
  2. soaringeagle

    soaringeagle Senior Member

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    stop over masterbating & you'll be fine,,lol

    & theres nothin wrong with not gettin turned on by every sexy scene on tv either..lol..if u were you'd just overmasterbate again

    get a life outside your pants awhile & you'll have hope someday..lol
     
  3. _orgazmik_

    _orgazmik_ o_O

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    It's not your penis, it's your eyes.. You're starting to go blind. [​IMG]
     
  4. TomK

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    Firstly, there really isn't such a thing as over masturbation. Secondly, there is no damage and nothing is irreversible, not by justing wanking 3 times each day.
    However, it may help to ease off for a couple of days every now and then as it sounds like you just got some kind of masturbation fatigue.

    I've had similar problems myself, from time to time, and a break is all it takes to solve it.
     
  5. horny_24/7

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    Mate, 2 - 3 times a day is about the average for a bloke, I personally do it a fair few times more than that daily. So you have nothing to worry about really. I did have a slight stage where I stopped getting erections from watching porn or thinking erotic things, so dont worry, you will be back to normal in no time.
     
  6. Alana

    Alana Come again!?!

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    Take it from someone who masturbates at least five times a day; there's no such thing as too much!

    If I were to guess, the first thing that comes to mind is - BOREDOM! Find something else to masturbate to, You'd be surprised the things you wouldn't consider doing that will turn you on none the less.
     
  7. horny_24/7

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    I do have this boredom problem, watching porn sometimes gets boring....is there any way to make it more fun without anal stimulation as im not into that
     
  8. Alana

    Alana Come again!?!

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    I do have this boredom problem, watching porn sometimes gets boring....is there any way to make it more fun without anal stimulation as im not into that...

    WHERE'D THAT COME FROM??? Use your imagination. That's why you have the ability to fantasize. When you run out of fantasies... I guess you're dead now, and don't have to worry about it much anymore!
     
  9. EazyE

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    Cut down masturbation to once a day, for about 3 days, then everything should be normal. I had something simular to what you describe, i had reasons why i did it too often though.
     
  10. horny_24/7

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    I dunno really, I just get bored from porn and there is like too much I can think of that I just cant lol. I wanna imagine it all at once if you get what im saying. I guess I am just trying to make masturbating better than I can :s.
     
  11. roddy89

    roddy89 Member

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    yeah masturbation is good and i know a few techniques for better orgasms
     
  12. Columbo

    Columbo Senior Member

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    DAAAH youre just blowing your own trumpet I bet ???? LOL
     
  13. Alana

    Alana Come again!?!

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    Try this:

    Stop thinking of it as masturbation. Take some time, a couple of hours, and make love to yourself. Do all the things that turn you on, make up new games or buy new toys. Try a vibrator on your penis. Make it last as long as you can. Stop when you're ready to cum. Spend the money and buy a porno DVD that just turns you on.

    Masturbation can be just as good as sex with another person. Sex doesn't always have to include copulation. All of the above are just suggestions. But the point of it is to have fun and enjoy your own body.
     
  14. Rigamarole

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    It was doctor-recommended?
     
  15. _orgazmik_

    _orgazmik_ o_O

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    lmfao [​IMG]
     
  16. horny_24/7

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    1) Im 16, i cant but porn =(
    2) Masturbating is about the only thing (I know of) that gets me excited with my own body. Nothing else works, unless some of you fellows baters can spare a few ideas?
     
  17. StrokeMe

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    switch it up from time to time. Don't just go through the same old routine everytime, try using your imagination instead of just strokin over the same old stuff everytime.
     
  18. SexySingle43

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    You and me BOTH, man. But hey! That's what the internet is for! :)
     
  19. MaximusXXX

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    There IS such a thing as overmasturbation. Jacking 3 times a day everyday is not good, here are some of the reasons why:

    Lack of cum for sex
    Lack of a rock hard ( it ain't as hard after 3 times in one day )
    Lack of arousal for usually arousing things

    My advice, try to limit yourself to once a day, and then once a week, and if you start havign sex more often, you'll find yourself only in need about twice a month.
     
  20. MaximusXXX

    MaximusXXX Senior Member

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    Yeah you can get near anything on LimeWire.
     

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