Hey everyone, brand new here and i joined because i've had some stuff on my mind about myself and wanted to see what other people thought: I currently identify myself as straight. i have a girlfriend of 4 years, going great and all of that. i love women, am attracted to women and have always been. The part of my story that i question is that i have a small collection of sex toys, mostly dildos and buttplugs that i like to use from time to time, not all the time, just when i feel like it every once in a while. i girlfriend knows about this and is ok with it (she's never used one on me tho) and reciently, i've had fantisies of her using a strap-on on me. we've also had a threesome with another guy and we all ended up having sex where i was penetrating my girlfriend while he was penetraing me. i am not sexually attracted to men, do not have feeling for men, but i like the feeling of anal sex, however i may get it. i don't think of myself as bi or gay but what am i? can anyone else identify with me?
So, you like it in the ass. So what? Being a bisexual myself, I can tell you that you are probably bisexual. That doesn't mean you have to run around and tell people, or even identify yourself as such. I assume that you have no desire to return the favor to the other guy. That's fine too. Bisexuals, just like every other form of sexual idenity, have their own preferences. Yours are very limited. That's okay. Mine are too; I prefer woman, but I enjoy sex with a guy orally or manually. I don't go marching in parades, and I don't hang out in gay/lesbian bars. If it works for you, roll with it. Don't try to explain it, and don't spend a lot of time worrying about it. If others can't handle it - too bad! Just enjoy it!
You like what you like. No big deal. Don't try and force yourself into any stereotype, just enjoy yourself with whatever the people you're with like as well.
