something i've wondered about for years

this is mostly directed at the women here but guys please feel free to comment on your own experiences too

my question is, girls when your with a guy, do you always tell him it was the best sex of your life even if it wasnt?

virtualy every girl i've been with in my life has told me i was the best they ever had.. now i know i'm a very passionate goiving person so can believe it in some cases expecialy with girls whove only been with selfish non caring men before
but i cant belive its true in every case especialy with women whove just had tons of experience with alotta guys
so girls please be honnest
is this something every girl says to every guy?

and guys is this something youve experienced with every girl?

and if so..why do girls feelthe need to stroke the egos of every guy?

just a question i've wondered about for years

 

One always feels that they should say something kind afterwards....but, Ive only been with 2 guys....If I was though. with more...yes..I would tell them they were good...even if they werent, I wouldnt want to hurt their feelings.

 

I haven't been told that with EVERY girl... Damn good, yes. But the best they've ever had? No, even though I'm a very affectionate, passionate guy, myself.

This one anarchist woman who's been with ALL sorts of men & women before told me that, and I was like... no way. With the kind of experience she had??? True or not, I remember my ego being tickled. And I miss her to death, but not for that reason.

It just may be, sorineagle... that you're the shit in bed!

 

hahaha fex dont need ya strokin my ego now..lol

i didnt mean every single experience although most..but yes every woman
some of wich were odviosly true since they'd only been with total losers before and in those cases yea i think even a clumsy fool woulda been the best
but this has beenj literaly every woman so i just question how truthful they could be
cause honnestly id preffer just honnesty..or..not even that i dont need a crituique ..i dont know why it cant just be good enough that we enjoy being together
why they cant somply say ilove being with you instead of having to make it a comparitive thing.. your better then mister x..or whatever

 

Yeah, the comparative thing annoys me as well. Even if it's favorable.

 

exactly

especialy since the only ones who really need an ego stroke are the ones who are fairly clueless what theyre doing..so wouldnt it be better to be honnessty and say hey it feels weird when u do that or..try touching me more like this..so they improve instead of just thinking thats the way things should be done?

 

I don't do that. but I'm generally a pretty honest person. if someone sucks in bed, I won't tell them exactly that, but I certainly won't fake having the best sex of my life. I don't think that gets either of us anywhere, right?

 

Thats what I meant, Im not going to say it was earth shattering.....but I wouldnt tell them it sucked either.

 

Meh, I dont lie, if it sucked you know it.

 

lol.... I had a guy ask me to rate him on a scale, it was hilarious.

anyways.
I've only said it was the "best ever" twice, and that's because the second time topped the first. I've said things like amazing or great or wonderful or incredible to everyone I've been with, but that's because it was genuinely whatever the descriptor was.

I kinda wonder the same thing about guys, since almost every guy I've performed oral on said it was the best oral they've ever received

 

I've yet to tell a guy he's the best.

Haha, been there.

 

i've only been with two men... my ex lover and my husband... while i was in love with my ex i knew in my heart that he didnt feel the same about me... it sort of tainted our sexlife.. for me anyways...it didnt matter how talented he was... i told him i enjoyed it.. but i never opened up enough to reach orgasm with him... Now my husband on the other hand... when we were together..sparks flew... it was incredible...our love was so pure and so trusting that we could have been the lousiest lovers on earth and it would have been amazing... my hubby was a virgin when I married him.... he wasnt exactly an expert.. but he was a diligent student and learned quickly... i've never faked an orgasm with him... if i dont have one.. it's okay because he knows that i enjoyed myslef anyways and I'm happy knowing that he had fun as well...