because jealousy and revenge gets in the way. everyone gets jealous, and bad things happen when people get jealous
and mary was married but she slepped around with god and so we should have one relationship forever in the eternal now until the next now comes around
men created monogamy. they wanted to protect their property, which they'd decided was going to be passed to only their progeny, usually male, instead of down the more reliable female line of matriarchal societies. since only the mother could be definitely known in a non-exlusive relationship, women had to be faithful to only one husband in order to make sure that the males were providing for their own offspring. i think it's funny that since men are primarily the ones to complain about the concept of fidelity (instead of women who are more successful at circumventing it) that it was most likely a man who came up with the idea.
good point kc but men's initial point is that no one (other than them) can sleep with "their" woman/women so as the seminal succession is not in doubt but they can sleep around with other women
I only wanna be with one girl I would appreciate if she felt the same way I believe it started out more along those lines and KC, women have a higher rate of infidelity
which brings up another issue... my friends and i are traditionalists (core hippie values) and so we do the orgy thing at parties but what happens is the guys form a big line to be with me while my other girlfriends who aren't as pretty are often standing around watching me and i kinda feel sorry for them ... which is probably how the idea of private property came about is one guy decided to make a woman his own so he wouldn't have to wait in line anymore or even wait to have sex when he wanted it
which is why i stated in my theory the line about women being more succesful at circumventing it. at any rate, women had as much right to demand fidelity from their men if it was being forced upon themselves. its only fair.
monogamy is stupid and unnatural...... the nuclear family is radioactive .....i propose a global clusterfuck !
Monogamy is fine is that is what people want. Its not the only way though. Ive always been a more then one person kinda person but Ive always been honest about it and always seem to find people that either dont mind or even like that about me.... Usually leaves me with a pretty happy situation....
hahaha i like a clusterfuck but ithinkineed to collect my thoughts on the subject and get back tothis thread later
rosalyn sanchez is superhot ......if she was to repeatedly strike me with a riding crop , and force me to lick her chocha ......and we constantly played esconda la sauchia .....and did an imitation of the beast with two backs .......i doubt id wander off looking for sombody else .....but thats hardly monogamy .....just reality .