Help! Give me some good ideas of a romantic thing to do...

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by Butters, Oct 26, 2006.

  1. Butters

    Butters Senior Member

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    Hey everyone. So...I'm going to visit my amazing girlfriend today, and through the rest of the weekend, and up until Saturday, we will have a house entirely to ourselves all day and night. So, tomorrow, she will be at work all day pretty much, and I'll be at the house alone until she gets back at 7, so while she's gone, I want to do something really romantic for her...and I need some ideas. I'm still pretty new to all of this. I mean, I'm a very romantic person myself, but I'm not so good with coming up with clever ideas. Anyone have any thoughts? I really want her to feel special...thanks a lot everyone! [​IMG]
     
  2. benotfree

    benotfree Member

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    I remember when I was dating one of my bestfriends, she was out all day and I made 100 oragami Lillys and covered her bed with them for when she got home. She was happy with it :)
     
  3. ihmurria

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    Cook her supper, light some candles, give her a massage when she gets home, tell her you've been thinking about her all day, make the evening all about her. Clean up the house a little too if it needs it (even just making the bed), have some romantic type music playing
     
  4. Haid

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    Discreetly find out what sizes she wears. When she leaves for work go pick her out a new dress(in her style), shoes, bag, whatever. Have it waiting when she gets home with a rose and a letter telling her to get ready. Then take her somewhere she likes to go, preferably some place she hasn't been in awhile.
     
  5. hippychickmommy

    hippychickmommy Sugar and Spice

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    Butters, listen to her! We women love this kind of thing! :D
     
  6. ihmurria

    ihmurria fini

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    :confused: I would hate having someone buy me clothes without me trying them on first, but I have an odd body shape to fit nicely so chances are it would look terrrrible on me.
     
  7. soaringeagle

    soaringeagle Senior Member

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    yes yes yes
    just sitting by a fire listening to her can be very romantic


    just a night of candlelight cuddling and talking..but really listening can be amazing, also silly lil gestures that uwanted the night to be special..like comming home to a room lit by 30 or so candles..with a nice romantic dinner
    alittle pampering..and added confort (the cleanning maybe preparing a nice confortable space to be in..
    like a futon by a fire..maybe some flowers or poutpouri ..candles..warmed oils if u decide on the masage..any tiny detail that shows u put specialthought into her confort and shows u care
     
  8. Haid

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    Not that I think this is a bad thing but I think it is all a little to cliche to be that romanic. I mean what boyfriend of hers hasn't already done this? Probably all of them. Just saying. Keep it a little more creative.
     
  9. ihmurria

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    :rolleyes: It's classic, not a cliche. At least, in my book it is. Besides you can always take a classic and make it your own somehow, add a unique spin to it.
     
  10. seamonster66

    seamonster66 discount dracula

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    I hear stopping the world and melting with the other person works well
     
  11. paintitblack

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    haha, it's a nice thought, but The Cure is mostly brake up music :D
    i can't think of anything special right now but i do hope you will have a great weekend! :)
     
  12. TopNotchStoner

    TopNotchStoner Georgia Homegrown

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    My fiance likes it when I write her some poetry. Nothing too serious or deep, just something special for her that may be a little humorous, and include in the poem lots of stuff that is specific to your relationship, such as 'pet names' you use for each other or secret code words you use when flirting with each other or showing affection. For instance: I named my fiance's ass "Wooble" and I included that in one of the poems. Also, instead of telling her "I love you" I sometimes tell her "I LOBE you", while I massage her earlobe, and I included that in one of the poems. She likes that.

    If you choose to write her a poem, include some of your 'pet' things in there. Or maybe your girl isn't the type that appreciates poetry. In which case, disregard this post;)
     
  13. campfirejam

    campfirejam Something-Something

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    AH Ha Ha Ha.............Thats awesome.

    I kind of agree with what HAID was saying. You should definitely try and be creative with it instead of the same old romantic crap. I guess it also depends on what kind of girl she is though to.
     
  14. DroopySnoopy

    DroopySnoopy The ORIGINAL Dr. Droop

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    I didn't know it was 'romantic crap' to show someone you care by making them comfortable when they get home...yea, creativity is great, but the classics...are classic for a reason. :(
     
  15. campfirejam

    campfirejam Something-Something

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    You want to take this outside punk? :)
     
  16. DroopySnoopy

    DroopySnoopy The ORIGINAL Dr. Droop

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    Oh, I was actually going to suggest a nice candlelit room, and making her favorite meal for her, maybe a little massage....but since someone else beat me to it...and since it wasn't to well received, I'll try again...


    Hide a little 'gift basket' for her at work, so she will stumble onto it when she least expects it. It could have her favorite movie, which the two of you could watch together later....and maybe a little something..extra..to spice things up a bit. Whatever works for ya. :)
     
  17. DroopySnoopy

    DroopySnoopy The ORIGINAL Dr. Droop

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    Sure, why not. Where would you suggest?? :D
     
  18. campfirejam

    campfirejam Something-Something

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    ^^^^^NO BUTTERS^^^^^

    I personally like to come home from work and be man handled, shoved up against things and humped...... And instead of coming home to candles lit already, you should wait to light the candles in front of her.......:nopity:
     
  19. DroopySnoopy

    DroopySnoopy The ORIGINAL Dr. Droop

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    So basicly, you like to be pushed around and 'used'...to an extent...
     
  20. campfirejam

    campfirejam Something-Something

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    Yes!
     
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