Pain during fucking... what's the attraction, girls?

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by Wicked Penetration, Oct 26, 2006.

  1. Wicked Penetration

    Wicked Penetration Member

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    My fiance really turned me on the other day. We were fucking and she groaned into my ear "Fuck me hard... it hurts but it feels so good" - now, I don't know why it turned *me* on other then the idea of just jackhammering into her is a major turn-on, but I want to know from the women, what is it that the pleasure is more then the pain, or do you get used to a little pain to the point that it's actually an added incentive to the pleasure of penetration?
     
  2. erzebet1961

    erzebet1961 Senior Member

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    Hahaha...that is a hard one to explaine....its a mix actually...its sort of like the bit of pain right before..or during orgasm...a kind of pain that brings its own brand of pleasure...confusing ?......yes it is......
     
  3. J0hn

    J0hn Phantom

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    Pain is close to pleasure.
     
  4. _orgazmik_

    _orgazmik_ o_O

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    Omg, pain definitely gets me off.. It's the pleasure of having an incredible orgasm due to having some pain because an object is deep inside you stretching you out until you can't be stretched any further.. The thing that gives you pain is also giving you pleasure.. At least, that's how it is for me.. I cum far better with vaginal pain than I do without it.. I don't need the pain but it most definitely brings some great orgasms.
     
  5. ihmurria

    ihmurria fini

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    the line between pain and pleasure is so freakin close, closer yet when I'm turned on/adrenaline rushing. I don't know why I'm wired like that, but I just am, it really gets my blood rushing
     
  6. benotfree

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    Sometimes you just need that little kick of intense sensation to get you off. But the again, I'm a pain whore
     
  7. warmhandedcanadian

    warmhandedcanadian shit storm chaser

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    I'm not really into pain, pain just hurts.
     
  8. benotfree

    benotfree Member

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    Only your body feels the sensation, not your mind. Pain doesnt really hurt, getting dumped hurts.
     
  9. Charise

    Charise Naked to the Cosmos

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    I've never really felt pain at all during regular intercourse-it's pretty much just pure pleasure. But sometimes I want to just be fucked really hard to the point that it hurts-just super-hard. When that kind of fucking brings on some pain, it'll bring me over the edge and induce an orgasm. That's really hot. Sometimes I just need to be fucked so hard that I'll say, 'cmon, fuck me 'til it hurts'. That kind of pain from being fucked that hard will start an orgasm almost right away. But it has to be really hard fucking to hurt me at all. When it gets to that level it's kind of hard to tell when the pleasure stops and the pain begins. Not that anything like that's happened lately.....:&
     
  10. J0hn

    J0hn Phantom

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    Pain and pleasure are married.
     
  11. THE MIGHTY TOENAIL

    THE MIGHTY TOENAIL Member

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    I love the feeling of being fucked really hard. But I don't like it hurting. It should be fast, deep and the wetter I am the better. Wetter is better :) No friction...just fast and hard, slamming in and out. Yeah...I love being slammed into deeeeep and HARD! It's curious because I enjoy S&M in some ways...but pain from sex is scary to me...hmm..
     
  12. Mrs.H

    Mrs.H Something Witty

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    Yeah, I like to feel it, just not in an uncomfortable way. Being stretched a bit, but not being torn up! And S&M I have never really been into. I would rather things be playful or sensual.
     
  13. J0hn

    J0hn Phantom

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    Whatever floats ya boat.:cool:
     
  14. underplay

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    would pain stop you from having sex? i havnt seen my gf in about a month but last saturday i took a train down to see her and after a couple times having sex she wont because it hurt her so bad..but i tried anyway and she started crying cause she said its big and it hurts her..has this happened to anyone?
     
  15. ihmurria

    ihmurria fini

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    That's a whole different kind of pain. What most of us are talking about here is the kind that walks the line between pain and pleasure. You two probably need more lube and more foreplay (ie fingering) and need to talk it out with her.
     
  16. DQ Veg

    DQ Veg JUSTYNA'S TIGER

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    Yea, or a penis reduction operation :jester:
     
  17. _orgazmik_

    _orgazmik_ o_O

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    How was school today, Teach? [​IMG]

    OMG we have new smilies.. *gets excited*
     
  18. DQ Veg

    DQ Veg JUSTYNA'S TIGER

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    My car's broken down again-I'm stranded for the next day or two :mad:. Yea, I feel this overwhelming urge to play with the new smilies....

    What happened to the new pic you had in your gallery? So hot....:drool:
    you should have put it in your sig....:daisy:
     
  19. now?

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    hurts so good kind of a thing--just really getting it deep and hard, like you just need to be filled, it's a good orgasm that comes from that kind of loving... :)
     
  20. _orgazmik_

    _orgazmik_ o_O

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    You have no idea what good spelling/grammar does to me. :drool:

    I deleted it.. I looked like an alien. :leaving:
     
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