i have fallen head over heals for the lifeguard at my beach. He flirts with me every day and calls me his love and plays with my hair. He is so handsome and funny but... long story short i just dont know if it would work out between us. I mean... it is fucking hard not to get caught up in it all. and then i question myself...is it love or is it lust? I never want to answer that question.
it's okay to fall into lust. YOu're not gonna fall in love with someone with out really knowing them first. A the instictive of lust will allow you to get involved with someone.
Hey I in my op its lust but you could try taking him a cold bottle of water and talking to him maybe youll click
