I'm 17 and i've been talking to this girl lately that i like. She was the one to ask me out originally. I excepted. She didn't even know me when she did so i'm assuming that she just liked my body at the time. So last night we went out together and watched a movie. I think we could have picked a little better movie to see on a date besides saw 3, but oh well. So mostly during the movie i just held and rubbed on her. I wanted to kiss her but i didn't think it was appropiate in the theater, especially during that movie! So after the movie we went to her house to hang out for a while. Her brother was home and you know how that goes. She didn't want to close her door either because she's clauster phobic (sp) so we just set there and got to know each other. I'm wondering what i should do the next time we get together. I really want to have sex with her but i'm so uneducated toward this subject that i don't even know what to do! I'm afriad that i will fuck something up, and i really don't want that to happen. I know this may sound stupid but how do i confront her with this? Do i just ask her if she wants to have sex? I would just go for a kiss at first then go from there without even saying anything but i'm to damn scared, i'm afriad that she would reject! Help!
You haven't even kissed her yet? Learn to crawl before you run. Yes go for the kiss but don't bring up sex after the first kiss. Things will progress as they progress, she'll likely be the one to let you know when she's ready since generally speaking it's the woman who slows things down. just, calm. Kiss, some groping maybe, don't think you'll get laid just because you got a kiss from her.
I'll try to go for a kiss, if i can get up the balls. Also should i just wait for her to say when, or what? And I don't see how groping is that far from fucking, but what do i know.
Ok. First of all you are 17, be careful. This girl lives at home with her parents and she won't close the door because she was Claustropobic? It dosen't sound like this girl is quite ready to just jump your bones yet. This maybe surprising to you but most women do not look at sex like men do. While you would be fine with sex at this point, this girl very likely may not. And I agree with the comment above- crawl before you run. Try and kiss the girl first. And rubbing is different than sex. And if you don't want to fuck something up- don't rush it. Try and develop a realtionship with this girl. Get to know her. That way if you ever do have sex with her, it will be all that much more fufilling...
Well what else would she have asked me for my number then? At the time she didn't even know me. I mean it seemed apparent enough that she was in it for sex. I can't think of any other reason. But yeah i'll take it slow. I just didn't want to leave her hangin, by going to slow but i guess it's better then going to fast..
Exactly. To the OP, see, there's this funny thing called "dating" that girls like to participate in, especially around 17 or so. Y'know, going out together, spendign time together, being giggly and kissing and trying to get to know the person better because they created some spark of interest within.
hahahaaa... yeah. great advice ihmurria! try to kiss her on the second date, if you wait too long she might think that you just want to be friends
being a girl and giving my number out to guys once or twice before... i was looking for a night together or lunch out not sex just from one phone call. just get to know the girl and go with the flow, youll know when your ready
