okay hear goes.... two years ago i had a miscarriage and i was devastated... for months after that i thought i was pregnant again.. i was convinced i was and i had all the symptoms...so off i went to my gp who faithfully tested me every month..untill eventually she put her arm around me and explained that probably i hadnt delt with my grief and that was why i was having psychosomatic symptoms....i jsut wanted it too much....and my heart broke every time i got my period....eventually i jsut stopped keeping track....but this month I'm late...my cycles have always been longer than most, about 30-38 days average...but by friday i will have gone 50 days with out a period! much later than i've ever been before... now, I'm on several medications that are associated with birth defects and this is so not the right time for me to be getting pregnant... although, i want this more than my next breath... I'm trying so hard to keep myslef from getting my hopes up... i dont think I could bear to go through it again...i keep telling myslef that the chances ar so slim..(I'm not on BC, and my hubby and i had unprotected sex twice this month.. but I was so sure that it was past my ovulation time...but now i dont know, cause i'm so late!) we didnt have sex any other time this month...( i know that sounds so pathetic ) I'm not really sure what I'm asking you... I jsut needed to talk to some one about it... I've been going crazy and i cant talk to brad.. he jsut keeps saying " You'd better not be!!" I'm trying to be patient and wait till November 1st before i take the test... I'll be 55 days by then and I've never been that late before... the test should be more accurate then anyways....i hope this makes sense....:&
Oh sweet lassie...I really feel for you...I lost 2 before my last was born...and when I nearly died having him...they opted for fixing me. But after I lost the second one...I wouldnt believe....or was afraid to believe I was pregnant with my last child...I wouldnt let myself think about it.....I didnt find out for sure till I was 2 months gone !!
{{{Hugs}}} I have three little ones, but I also lost two. One before my oldest son was conceived and one before my twins were conceived. For me, if I was even one day late, I knew I was pregnant because my cycles were always consistent! Good luck to you, hugs, and healing...
Don't feel alone. There are plenty of us here to offer our support, so don't feel afraid to let it out! Keep us updated!
my only concern was the you better not be comment whats that all about wouldnt your husband be suppirtive if you are especualy knowing how important it would be toyou? other then that many factors can make u late..including stressing over being late but i wish ya alotta luck and hope everything works out for u
My ex-wife was on the verge of having a miscarriage for six weeks (constant bleeding) until I discovered in an old medical book that natural Vitamin E was crucial in preventing miscarriages (that's actually how they discovered the vitamin!). The doctor's told me I was nuts, but I went down and bought a bottle, and two hours after she started taking it the bleeding completely went away, and never came back! We had a perfectly healthy little boy born to us months later. I try to tell any woman that's had a history of miscarriages about this. It can do nothing but help you-however, it needs to be the natural form of Vitamni E. The synthetic form doesn't work.
Update: Two negative home tests and still no sign of impending period... getting more nausious and exosted as days go by....i think I'm slowly going insane....:hysterica :hysterica :hysterica
i thought you were going to wait until today to test? anyway, maybe you should go to your doctor. being so late in and of itself could be a sign of something else you need to get taken care of. plus, the nausea and exhaustion.... are you eating enough? and are you trying to conceive or not? if you are, you should have sex way more often than twice a month, especially since your periods are so irregular. it's hard to tell when you're ovulating unless you're using temperatue stuff and all that. if you aren't trying to conceive, getting on some sort of birth control could help get rid of some of this anxiousness you're having every month. i hope you get the outcome you want
still no sign of my period, but all tests have come back negative and the doctor at the clinic said he wont check it out untill I've missed 6 cycles... i dont know how missing half a years worth of mentration is natural or healthy, but i've long since had much faith in western medicine..
Wow, that's pretty crazy! Has this ever happened to you before? Missed periods for any length of time? I'm surprised that your doctor isn't willing to look more into things until you've missed 6 cycles. If I were you, I'd think about either getting a second opinion or finding another doctor, if possible. Have they done an ultrasound?
no I've never skipped a period before.. let alone two... and he refused to do any thing about it... he jsut chocked it up to hormones and sent me on my way... he was a bit of a dick... so condiscending... oh well... i'll jsut have to wait I guess...
What kind of a doctor says that shit? What does the gynocogaawwyaa...whatever( The vagina doctor ) say about it? Any doctor that refuses to make sure that his patient is 100% healthy needs to have his license stripped!!
