society sucks

I hate how all of my friends are girls. Frequently i am asked if im fucking any one of my friends.it seems like society doesnt think a guy and a girl can be alone together without fucking. All of my friends' boyfriends all get hella jealous when they spend time alone with me...

Does anyone else have this problem? id never think of bangin' any of my friends but obviously that is what everyone else would like to believe, ive had friends accused of cheating on their boyfriends for spending time with me.

i hate it.

 

Been there, done that myself. You're not the only one with this situation.

 

I would say it will get better as you get older, but it really doesn't...I mean, some people...men and women...are jealous people...and you really can't do anything about it. Some people have insecurities and trust issues. This has nothing to do with you...it's just how people are. You either have to ignore it...or stop having girl friends.

 

I used to have the same problem with a certain male friend. People always thought we were dating b/c we spent a lot of time together. It got to him and really hurt our friendship. I just chose to ignore other people's comments b/c does it really matter what other people think? Not really. It's up to you to decide if you want that shit to get to you or not.

And, as Annie said, people will always find a reason to be jealous. Any reason.

Peace and love

 

So, do you hate how all of your friends are girls, or do you really just hate the way people react to that?

Frankly, my fiance is one of those guys who has mostly female friends. We were friends for a long time before anything happened. He often bitched about his mom asking which one of us (the female friends he often hung out with) he was dating. He's been there, done that.

Frankly, I think it makes him a much better catch. He's sensitive without being a pushover, can talk about feelings and isn't afraid to talk about my period but also isn't afraid to tell me when I'm being a bitch, etc. Most of the guys I've encountered who didn't have a lot of female friends either were too macho to be worth my time or tried to do the sensitive guy thing but went overboard to the point of being spineless pushovers (not desirable in any way, unless you're into S&M!).

Then, of course, there's an entirely different way to look at this -- they're all fucking jealous that you spend so much time with females (whether anything's going on or not) while they can't get any females to pay that much attention to them!

 

society does suck man.... hump society man.

 

Don't hang out with putzes and expect them not to act like it.

 

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That is an extremely good point!

 

Don't worry about these guys, they seem extremely insecure and hence are jealous and paranoid.

 

Id have to agree!

But 98% of my friends are guys, at first I was asked if I was dating them...but i find if your just like....no and ignore those people...they'll get over it in time.

 

i also have mostly women freinds but i guess i dont get asked that alot just cause ppl know me and know how i am and know if i was dating 1 of em it would be quite odvios & they wouldnt hafta ask