Hi, my names David and I'm 17 years old. I have yet to have one girlfriend and am afraid that I will never find that special someone. I'm very self conscious because of my weight so I can be extremely shy at times. Anyways will I ever find my true love? I want to know what she looks like, is she beautiful?
You will only be able to find that special person once you realize how special you are. You must realize that your physical body does not make who you are on the inside, your entity or energy. I believe strongly that there is someone out there for you, but you're not ready to meet her. As a matter of fact, you may already know her, but you don't even realize it because you're blinded right now. You seem like someone who does not feel secure often, possibly someone who changes focus a lot or can't stay focused on a single person or situation for too long. You may end up changing jobs a lot and or feel "bi-polar" at times. I highly recommend that you focus on your root chakra, but you shouldn't stop there. You should balance all of your chakras and open them so that you can begin to heal. You have been repeating the same cycle in your life up to this point for a very important reason. You have yet to learn the lesson from this situation yet. You're spirit (you) is trying to get you to work through a karmic imbalance or problem, once you break through, you'll see things in a totally new light. I recommend you meditate and work on contacting your spirit guides, just willing it to happen will move you on the right path. But you must be listening for them, it's subtle. If you'd like my help, feel free to contact me via PM or IM (MSN). Take Care, Kevin ^_^
good advice, but also remember that you have a very powerful advantage. 90% of men can be bastards towards women. If you can make a girl laugh, make her feel secure with you and just generally be a decent guy you can be a more attractive boyfreind that the stereotypical "captain of the football team" bloke, cos these people are often arrogant and insensitive. The thing is lots of girls seem to take a while to realise that they don't prefer the bastards. When you're young, the fit boys who care least about the girls get all the attention. And they always will get attention. But, as girls get hurt by their experiences of men what they look for in a partner changes. When they're in school often the captain of the football team can seem the most attractive, but as they mature the people they can depend on, trust and have a good time with seem better. Basically what I'm trying to say is that good people usually find other good people to be really happy in a relationship with, whereas those blokes who rely only on looks have lots of empty sex. It'll work out. By the way I used to be fat right up till I was 17. Now I'm 21 and not fat since about 18. not quite sure how that happenend. Also, only had my first girlfreind(or sex) when 19yrs old. Used to feel really bad about it but now its ok. Don't feel so bad. Loads of people wait that long but most lie. It'll be ok. I was really shy with girls too, and didn't know what to say to them, but some girls will make the moves. You'll be fine. Listen to the dude above though 'cos if you wanna get right into it, the physical body is only an illusion anyway. Find your spirit self.
