are there things that can help my from having a premature ejactulation during the first time i have sex??? im worried about that part....
Try thinking about something unsexy. Also, drinking a little bit of alcohol can help (it can make you have to pee though...). Do you do it a second and third time with your girl? Some guys last much longer second and third time.
To Tanker69 - Premature ejaculation is very common in 18 year old guys. Here are some tips to prevent it: 1. Count every thrust, and you will concentrate on counting rather than cumming. 2. Think of your penis as pulling something out of her vagina rather than putting something in it - an old Indian (Kama Sutra)technique 3. Stop inside her for 30 seconds when you are about to blow. 4. Gentlly pull your testicles down when you come close to orgasm (they "ride up" when you approach ejaculation) 5. Concentrate on thrusting in only 2-3 inches for a while (the first three inches of your penis and her vagina are the most sensual) 6. Try doing 9 short thrusts and one deep thrust, then eight short thrusts and two deep thrusts, then 7 and 3, 6 and 4 and so on until you do 10 deep thrusts - you will cum then, I guarantee it. 7. Practice masturbating to the point of orgasm, and then try to stop from ejaculating. You will learn how your body reacts and will recognize the signals your penis sends out and how to control them. 8. Use a thick condom. If none of these work, there are desensitising creams you can buy.