How often do you say "I Love You" to non-lovers?

Discussion in 'The Whiners' started by play-with-your-mind, Nov 6, 2006.

  1. play-with-your-mind

    play-with-your-mind Member

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    I was wondering, how often do you people say "I Love You" to people who you aren't in a relationship with? Like friends, co-workers/classmates, teachers/bosses, cause I say it a lot. Like, a whole lot. And I mean it, cause I'm in love with everyone, and whenever I wrap up a harmonica solo or a folk song or whatever I'm doin' to entertain, I always tell my audience (consisting of non-hippies) that I love every one of them. I mean, I was just wondering what the community sentiment was on this topic.
     
  2. Balloonatic

    Balloonatic Senior Member

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    whenever i see any of my friends or people i know, male or female young or old, there is ALWAYS an exchanging of "i love yous" because thats just how we roll in this town :D
     
  3. play-with-your-mind

    play-with-your-mind Member

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    How pleasant. When it comes to recieving, the numbers are a lot smaller. Some of the girls I say it to return the favor, and most of the guys are still hung up on "hmm I don't want to say anything that would give people the wrong idea." Cept for the gay guys of course, but they're more fun anyway.
     
  4. ConeyIslandOfTheMind

    ConeyIslandOfTheMind Member

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    Love is too strong of a word to throw around.

    So, hardly ever.
     
  5. Balloonatic

    Balloonatic Senior Member

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    ^ keep in mind there are different kinds of love. duh

    i have a lot of love for the people in my life
     
  6. moon_flower

    moon_flower Banned

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    Any moment could be your last. Love it up.
     
  7. ConeyIslandOfTheMind

    ConeyIslandOfTheMind Member

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    Yes. Duh.
     
  8. soaringeagle

    soaringeagle Senior Member

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    i love everybody and i let em know it constantly.. like baloonatic i love a hell of alot and she knows it... and i love all ya guys too and i never worry bout ppl gettin the wrong ideas..its all just love..love should be shared freely..the more love there is in the world the happier the world will be
     
  9. teh-horace

    teh-horace for your pleasure

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    oh snap!

    :tongue:
     
  10. play-with-your-mind

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    Love is a stong word, in a positive way, right? That's all the more reason to say it to as many people as possible. The idea of reserving your love for a select few is a Biblical, established-by-the-system concept, and I don't like it.

    But hey, that's just me man.
     
  11. teh-horace

    teh-horace for your pleasure

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    you polyamourous whore!

    devil woman child!

    slice your wrists and cast yourself unto satan now!










    just kiddin'!
     
  12. MoonjavaSeed

    MoonjavaSeed Yeah, Toast!

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    Usually it's one of those "Aw shit. :D I love that kid," situations for me.
     
  13. prismatism

    prismatism loves you

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    i say it sporadically whenever i get bursts of love for a person... with some people, it's in my goodbyes automatically, but usually, they do something that is just so them and i say "man, i love you". but i hug everyone.
     
  14. erzebet1961

    erzebet1961 Senior Member

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    It is a part of my vocabulary...I love everyone...even those who happen to hate me.
    But...there is love...and LOVE....and Ive a different sort for my lover...when I have one. I say it...and I mean it ..because I show it.
     
  15. lankymidget

    lankymidget Worlds Tallest Dwarf

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    Sadly, I was only saying it to one person until recently...

    Oddly, and even more sadly, I only got around to saying it OUT LOUD recently too..

    To be honest, I have dozens of emotions that I am more willing to share with non-lovers.. They mean alot to those that have them lavished on them. Love is the pinnacle of all those expressions, and should be given with more feeling than the others..

    I do love alot of people that I never have to tell that I love..
     
  16. erzebet1961

    erzebet1961 Senior Member

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    Ahhh yes.....but sometimes just hearing it said can heal a wound...soften a heart...and brighten a day. I only say it if I mean it....and I show it as well as mouth the words.....so that those I say it to...know that it is for real.
     
  17. lankymidget

    lankymidget Worlds Tallest Dwarf

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    It's a terrible thing that the word "love" freaks some people out.. And I know it's more than just a part of the reason I use it sparingly.. And I've accepted that it's made me a man of actions.. A person who will do and give alot of things without a second thought..

    The poster who said there are different kinds of love, and different meanings of love is right, and sometimes, I would like the strongest meaning of the word to have the strongest of bonds...
     
  18. erzebet1961

    erzebet1961 Senior Member

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    I love you Baby Brother L M
     
  19. MollyThe Hippy

    MollyThe Hippy get high school

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    everytime i wake up my a partner cuz i accidently made some noise doing stuff and they ask why did you wake me up and so i say, cuz i love you
     
  20. erzebet1961

    erzebet1961 Senior Member

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    Hahaha..I wouldnt mind being woke up ..just so I could hear that !!!
     
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