so im in 11th grade going to college right. i get good grades and all that life is alirght i like music and art a lot never had a girlfriend want to get one meet a girl so i join some clubs shes in i talk to her she shows no interest im stuck doing these clubs sure itll look good for college but, no one really cool is in the clubs just nerdy guys and preppy girls i dunno i dont feel to happy Am i a loser?
Baby....you are not a loser , you are a living , breathing soul looking for companionship..she is out there somewhere..it might take awhile to find her is all. Be patient....and stay sweet.
Sarombi, I don't know If you're a loser or not, but If you think you are - you probably are Show some backbone and walk up to the hottest girl in school and ask her out. do it while she's surrounded-by her closest friends. For the rest of your life it's either trim city, or internet porn, videos, and late night liaisons in the attic with your inflatable best friend. Hotwater
Some females enjoy these things too and will share them with you,endorsing the best of both worlds some..
there are no loosers or winners, only those who see more or less clearly what uniquely and individualy brings them personal gratification, and with more and less opportunity to live in such ways as to increase the probability of this happining. and that is not to dismiss or deny the reality that we all live in a world that our priorities collectively create much of what we are faced with experiencing individualy. and the collectively bit means only that no one of us individualy controlls it, but, each and every last one of us are an integral part of making it that way whether we want to be or not. the most frequent cause of dissappointment, after the error of having and tying too much emotional weight to expectations, is the persuit of gratification where there is none specific to ourselves as individuals to be found. =^^= .../\...
No man you are not a loser, your junior in HS and making good grades? Congradulations man, good job. I know how you feel though, I didn't have my first "real" girlfriend till I was nearly 22, don't worry about it, besides the first relationship usually ends up breaking one of the hearts involved. Why rush into that? Your doing fine man relax and groove to the wonder of being, an experiencing being. sine cera
