One of the things that pisses me off is when I see good-looking girls at college with other lads - I feel as if i've had all the good-looking girls snatched away from under my nose, and I feel sick to the heart. Whenever I see a good-looking girl (some of them can be really stuck-up cows and think they're god's gift) I wish that I had one, and it makes me feel bitter and angry. I know which girls are my type and which aren't, and I can tell which ones fancy themselves and are stuck-up (they tend to be like snobs and look down on people that they feel aren't as important or as high up as them). Some of them are pretty, and I am quite a good judge of character and personality and I look at some and think "She looks nice, and seems just like my sort of girl" and others "She looks nice, but she ain't my type". I mean I dress a lot smarter than the other lads (I take pride in my appearance and look CASUALLY smart, not smart as in shirt + tie/tuxedo because that would make me look grossly (meaning extremely NOT disgustingly) overdressed and i'd look daft. The rest of the lads are scruffy sods that wear tracksuit pants and t-shirts and just typical dickhead lads (some of them are in the gym so i'll cut them a bit of slack) I despise the lads, apart from the ones that I talk to and get along with - There's a lad that is really quiet (he's different from the rest and he isn't very talkative or popular) but I talk to him (we get the same taxi to and from college) because we live in the same town and it's a 10-15 minute drive from where our town is. There is a lad in my college class who sits near me for a particular lesson on Tuesday afternoon (he grins a lot and teases me about Man Utd losing) and he's alright. Basically, I wear a shirt (a choice out of three - Red/purple type coloured shirt, Green shirt or blue shirt. Also, a pair of blue jeans, black shoes and a black leather jacket - Casually smart. It doesn't faze people though, and the girls don't look fazed by it or look at me in admiration. Is there are trick to attracting good-looking girls? I haven't got the looks have I - Just why don't they fancy me!!???
Looks aren't everything. Looks fade. And besides, when you truly love someone, to you they are the most beautiful person in the world. I understand that you want a "good-looking" girl. But, have you ever known someone who, at first glance, you didn't think was all that good looking, but once you got to know them, suddenly, they looked much more attractive to you, beautiful in their own way? I don't know, just a thought.
I'm very choosy when it comes to girls, but if I had to choose my ideal girl, i'd like her to be serious like me and smart (not some practical joker/pisstaker or stupid laidback happy-go-lucky person), long hair (not really too fussy about haircolour - blonde, black, brown or redhead, green/blue eyes, look friendly/approachable with a beautiful smile, slim (not some fat minger) and be kind and caring. I'd rather have no-one than have some fat, confident, bubbly, gobby, irritating girl. I want a girl that is right for me and good enough for me, i'm not bothered if she isn't the best looking girl on the planet.
Of course I know there has to be some sort of "attraction" to get the ball rolling but perhaps you are putting too much emphasis in the beauty department. It doesn't sound like you want a gf to be in the love with or even have a serious relationship more so you want a beauty queen attached to your arm. That's kinda sad. I defintely concur with hippychickmomma, attraction can stem deeper once you actually get to know somebody or quite the opposite. Perhaps you get one of these chics that you're after, and you two have nothing in common and have nothing to say to one another...what good is that even if she is "beautiful"...? You only have 3 shirts in your wardrobe? That strikes me as odd after reading your thread....
Well I want a good-looking girl that is good enough for me - Is that so hard for people to understand? As for me having 3 shirts, maybe i've been a bit too open about it and also, i've got football shirts, such as Man Utd and England, as well as tracksuit pants and trainers. I've also got a black jumper and a grey jumper. Do you think i'm a scruffbag or something? - Why does it strike you as odd? Am I messed up or something? Well!!??? I'm not a girl that goes shopping ever week for stuff on the highstreet and all the so-called fashion these days that consists of t-shirts with shit designs on them, jeans with rips in them and all that crap.
it's all about vibrations man. if I see a cat that I am attracted to I vibe the fuck out of her, and if she digs, it's inevitable we'll talk, if she misses it, we probably wouldn't get along anyway.
Yeah I thought so, but also, I haven't exactly got the looks and i'm not good enough for anyone. Girls hardly hear me talk, so how can they notice my attitude? What do you suggest?
exactly!! you say you only want a beautiful girl whos good enough for you well..maybe your not good enough for them cause you cant look deeper even the most beautiful girls dont want to only be thought of as beautiful, but appreciated for who they are..admiring theyre beauty should be secondary to admiring theyre personality i doubt its how u dress thats effecting ya but more your attitude especialy your no fat chicks comment..no woman wants a shallow asshole..if your willing to look deeper at the whole person, and concider fat chicks as women too worthy of concideration, youd be far more attractive to every woman man i cant tell you how many incredibly beautiful women i know are attracted to me..amd i know its because of how i treate them equaly and if i came off with such an attitude that ya gotta be hot to desserve me..noone would find that attractive at all ya got some maturing to do
No, I haven't seen a beautiful girl with some overweight butt ugly dude, and you can hardly class me as one of them - I'm not some fat git!!! I am confident and comfortable with myself, but they just don't want me.
I don't care if i'm shallow, but if I did go down that route, then it's the only way i'd realise - We all make mistakes. I'm not a shallow arsehole, but a person with standards and expectations - I'm choosy and fussy, and I won't just happily take some fat minger and I aint a shallow arsehole and as far as i'm concerned, there's nothing wrong with my way of thinking!!! By the way, I don't want you to tell me how incredibly beautiful women are because I don't need some smartarse telling me what's what and it's not as if you can pull a decent bird.
yea the whole "i want a beautiful girl but not one of those fat snobbish girls, why dont i get the girls, i dress better than other pple" attitude is really never gonna get u anywhere, thats a sure fact. it makes u sound shallow and desperate, two very unattractive traits. i suggest changing your view over things before stating what u think is wrong with the rest of the world..
Your images are also projecting a very huge aura of ugliness, and you could do with a decent shave and hairstyle.
There's nothing wrong with my attitude, and girls can't exactly tell that this is my way of thinking, no-one can - People aren't mind readers you know!!!
Your whole reason of wanting a good looking girl is actually why you don't want one. You answered your own question without even realizing it. Good looking girls aren't for you apparently.
u can still send me the beer... and the aura of ugliness comment was mean and stupid but it still made me laugh..
Maybe one percent of highschool girls offer something even mildly entertaining in terms of personality. So yeah, I can see the focus on looks.
Well i'm a lad with standards, and i'm choosy and fussy and that aint such a bad thing really. My view isn't going to change things - People can't read my mind.