hey guys im new and rather excited to join a new online comunity with open minded people. i've left an introduction in the newb intro area feel free to read, but theres not much to know about me... regaurdless i have a question... its quite simple. how do you flirt? i've never really flirted, or if i have i didnt take note. heres my issue! my girlfriend was hit on by a guy and doing things the way i do i decided to handle the problem by taking away something good from the experience. and i learned that she loves to flirt, i see it as kinda odd, because i never flirt on purpose. i mean i complement her regularly, letting her know that shes whats important to me, making her feel wanted. but i've never flat of complimented her ass, or let on to what kinds of things i think about doing to her when shes away... its funny cause im usualy focused on other things. like work, my art, ect., it never struck me to try and excite her... so i tried it over the net the other day and she got off to it! so i know she really likes it! but i think im going to run out of ideas soon, 'cause its not really my thing to do... but i like to make her happy... kinda like another form of art, but i have no skill in it! i feel kinda silly! i mean we've been together for a year! and i never glimpsed into the world of flirting with my own girlfriend! help!! i need tips! when are good times to flirt with her? how can i tell im going over board?
Just be playful. Joke with her about things and give her compliments in a playful way. Some people like to tickle too. Hm...sorry I couldn't be of more help.
i think you just need to be friendly to her , relaz and dont try to hit and be hit on every words that comes out , steady and be smiley
Well, all ya need to do is acquire some flirting skills. It's all technique. Google "flirting skills" and you'll get all the information ya need. Good Luck! Bustramp
flirting is so easy , but first you have to learn some serious rules first thing leos dont like to flirt (which is what you are ) they like to be flirted with ,e.g you dont like to chase you like to be chased, me im a gemini i live to flirt , all i ever do is flirt , my wife is a leo , and she loves me flirting with her so we get on been married for 11 years and most of the time it works . i chase she likes to be chased , but she hates seeing me flirt with other people in public , then she flips her lid , certain star signs live for the flirt , and some dont , you first need to work out , what your girlfriend is , then from there you can openly discuss what makes you both tick if for example she is an aquaruis the kings of unemeotional mind games , you will not be able to compete with her mind games , so dont try, read up on her star sign a little its all over the net , then maybe you can attempt to understand her better, dont get too deep into it , just a little oversight into hoe she deals with life dont ask me why it works or how but believe me it does i only have to find out a girls star sign to know if we will get attached or not and trust me its been getting me into some awkward situations of late
you've been with her for a year so you must have been doing something right if you're attracted to her then your body language will show that anyway, but if you want to add something extra, just go with what feels good, tell her what you're thinking- your own thoughts are better than any line because they're specific to her, and are from the person that she loves the most. flirting can include inside jokes, catching her eye/holding eye contact for longer, tickling her...anything special i suppose but like i said, you're probably doing the right things already. you sound like a really nice, considerate guy, so i'm sure you're doing well!
