Please move this if this in in the wrong section. How do you ''finger'' a girl? I need just safety tips and a guide to doing it. I normally receive handjobs and blowjobs, but I want to return the favor rather than just going down on the girl. Thanks.
haha the first time i did it was with my middle fingerand ijust started going slow until responded and i jus continued 2 go steadely faster until she was growning. and i was drunk on absenth so u should b fine!
theres no real trick to it, just dont go pokin and proddin like shes a toy.. spend a bit of time warmin her up, once shes ready just slip on in and the rest just will come natural..you'll be able to tell what feels good and what doesnt if u just pay alittle attention and she'll give y alittle guidance as well..
Can't argue with that logic! Girls like different things. Some like being 'finger fucked' while others would rather have yo pay attention to just the "G" spot. Others don't want you inside, they like their clits manipulated. Some have an absolute limit to the amount of fingers, others will take whaever you offer. The point is, the best part of any sexual act is in the discovery. The only way to know what she lies and dislikes is simply to ask her. If she's not comfortable talking about it, then you need to pay more attention to her reaction to what you're doing. Her facial expression and body language are a great way to tell you how your doing.
things to try: ~putting your finger inside her with you facing each other. crook your finger gently a though you were beckoning someone towards you to "come here". so you're bending the top two knuckles of the finger. gently do that, you should hit the g-spot. ~ put a straight finger inside her, fuck her with it. slam the finger in and out of her...work up to 2 fingers [start slow so you dont hurt her and gradually work up to it] ~ rub her clit with the tips of your fingers.start slow and talk dirty to get her wet. sometimes saliva helps if she's not wet enough...either lick your fingers first or go down on her. ~ if you don't know where the clit is, look up a diagram on the web and watch some porn to get the idea ~ make sure your nails are TRIMMED without sharp poking out bits! clean hands is good too ~ talk to her, ask her to tell you what feels good for her. ~ if she's comfortable, get her to masturbate in front of you and show you what she likes.
Many men do not even know what or where the "G spot" is, and a lot of women don't either. It is on the upper inner wall of the vagina on the back side of the pubic bone about 2-3 inches in. To find it, have the female elevated on a pillow under her butt and insert your index and middle fingers ((well lubricated) palm side up into her vagina. Then do a "come hither" motion with those fingers to find the "G spot". She may have to tell you when you have found it. It is on the opposite side of the pubic bone from the clitoris, and that organ can be stimulated at the same time as the "G spot", by you or her. A "G spot" orgasm is much different and stronger than a clitoral orgasm, and it is difficult for a woman to give herself one. It is also difficult to stimulate the "G spot" with the penis, since the "G spot" is hard to reach with an erect organ. It can be reached by a downward bending erect penis going in doggy style, by a semi-hard penis with the woman on top, and by various other athletic positions such as both face up, butts touching (on pillows), and the erect penis bent to go in from that position. Only about 1/3 of women can get an orgasm from intercourse alone, and 25%of women never get an orgasm. Thus sayeth Cutted
Good advice Alana, ToeNail, and (especially from my poiint of view) ihmurria. May I add that it is also best to woo the whole woman, not just A vagina. Kissing (lips, breasts, belly, behind the knees, inside the ankle), speaking, exploring. And, for chissake, get outta the backseat and into a bed: naked!!
