Need some advice here. I was with my current gf giving her oral and trying every trick in the book and she doesn't even react. Can someone help explain to me what I could be doing wrong and what tips and tricks i could use? She says she is okay with it, and neither really likes it or really hates it. Most women I know die for guys to give them oral. Help!
lick and nibble on her clit a little, and if she doesnt react to that i dunno what to tell you, also try fingering her while you do it
Ok what you have to do is warm her up. You have to kiss her lips and grope her tits and her ass. You have to kiss her neck and nibble on her ear alittle bit ( do not rush through this, this is forplay ), then you have work your way down, sucking on her nipples, kissing her breast and her stomach ( again do not rush through this ). Kiss the inside of her thighs, bite them a little bit, and kiss her lips, lick her entire vulva ( this will let you know if shes ready. If shes really wet, shes ready, if not, more foreplay ). Once she is ready, give her a few more long licks, just to get a taste for her ( remember, you have to be enjoying yourself, otherwise she will sense that you are just doing it to please her, like its a chore, she won't like that. Move up and focus on her clit. This part is easy. All you have to do is lick it in an upward motion with the tip of your tongue and a steady consistent pace. You have to keep a rhythm, and don't do anything fancy, otherwise the orgasm will reset and you will have to start over anyway. For added pleasure, wet one finger, ease it into her vagina, and pull forward in a sort of "cum here" motion. Don't scratch her, and don't finger fuck her. Just curl your finger a little, at the same rhythm that you are licking her clit. You can also wet a finger on the other hand, and tickle her asshole with it. As she starts to moan a little, lick a little faster, she should cum in no time. Most importantly, she needs to feel like you are enjoying what you are doing. If she has poor hygiene, that is impossible. Goodluck.
ouch nibbling on the clit hurts for me. And I don't much like the come hither motion, it doesn't do much for me, I'd rather be fingerfucked. What all does that go to show? That every woman is different. We do'tn knokw your gf's turnons, there's no way we could. Ask her what she likes, it's the best way to find out.
Try asking HER what turns her on. Everybody knows what feels good to them and where and how much. If she can't talk to you about sex, then asking on this forum is not going to solve your problems. Every woman is a little different some and like or don't like various different activities during sex play. Most of us guys are easier to please. She might just be turned off to oral (hard to belive) and if so, give her some space and don't try to force her into something she is uncomfortale with. ...just my 2 cents worth...
first i dont know your technique but here are a few things that i know will get a reaction. first dont go straight for the clit, tease her a lil softly drag you fingers up and down on her lips for a bit. when you hear her sigh or feel a quiver you know she likes it. then slowly penatrate her with one or two fingers while kissing her vagina try to put most of the tongue action below the clit that will drive her crazy (i know it would make me crazy). as you start getting faster with fingering her stop for a sec and penetrate her with your tongue and lick from hole to clit and do lil light flicks and start to penetrate her with your fingers again as you lick her clit. do a lil nibbling on her lips and rub her clit. if this doesnt work then try tracing your abcs with your tongue on her clit and below the clit.
Are you sure you know the location of the clit?:H Try her holding the lips apart while you work your way up there. Yeah, up! too many guys waste too much time down where the entrance is. If she's too sensitive on the clit, she'll let you know as you approach it.:drool:
this is my son he is 19 months and in 8 more months he will be a big brother i am hoping this baby is a girl.
Also, you can finger her whilst you munch. Most people don't even take that into consideration. G-spot stimulation+clit stimulation at the same time.
Owwww I repeat: ask her what she likes, we aren't made the same. The technique I quoted would NOT turn me on, it would hurt me.
No, there's a way to be gentle with it. I don't pull on it when I do that, just kinda rubbing it from side to side with my tongue and rolling it around a little bit while I suck on it. She loves it. The first time I munched on her, the first time I ever munched anyone, I gave her four orgasms, largely due to this method. Her juices were trickling down her thighs.
I'm sure it works great for her, but I know that it DOES NOT work fo rme. Hello, I know my own body, I've had it for 21 years. Clit sucking is not a pleasurable sensation for me, and the face side to side thing makes me think of a dog rubbing it's nose in something, which is also a rather giant turn off for me.
