i really miss my boy. i don't get to see him for another 40 something days and we can only talk once a week. this is really hard
awh I know how it is (kinda) I can never seem to connect to peoples that live around here nearly as well as I connect to others long distance relationships are a bitch make sure you guys ahave lots of trust, and that you both really want it
well it sucks for sure. but I love my gf and find this relationship more fulfilling than ones where the girl was right there. plus I appreciate seeing her so much more compared to other gfs I saw each day. and you connect on an emotional, mental level so deep without the physical when your SO is right there..and when you come together..the physical is so much better. waiting makes things so great in all aspects. find creative ways to express your love. send letters, send art, cds, unique little gifts..make things, take funny pictures! Distance allows for different aspects of the relationship to come out. distance does not have to suck as much as some people think!!! though I certiantly miss her dearly. Its a fablous way to really strengthen your bond too. If you can do it, it will add so much confidence in over coming other bumps in the road. To come to terms with the distance and acknoweldge possible problems and still want it is, in a way, empowering. I was away from my gf for 10 weeks in the summer and am away from her..for 6 weeks already and have 7 and a half to go...than I will see her and a third time, we will have 9 weeks apart. But doing it really empowers you for future seperations.
Just stay honest (both of you) and keep the communication lines open, for when you do talk. They are hard...I'm in one now. I love him dearly, the only thing I would change, was that we could go through all the immigration stuff, and get me there sooner. But that takes money, and planning. We're working on that part now. It's only been a week since I've seen him, and I'm already going crazy. We aren't even sure when he can come visit here, as money is always an issue. As is taking time off from work, for both of us. But if you two work hard enough at it, and if it's meant to be, clementinexo, it'll work out in the end. (sorry I kind of hijacked this with my own stuff)
its one of the hardest things I have ever done, but I know how rewarding its going to be in the end. I think about my love everyday! goodluck sweetie, and know that we are all supporting you
It depends on how far away they are I suppose DA. that sounds about right for me. with me in usa and gf in england/france, I can call her once a week for 20-30 minutes and likewise for her, because international calls are unbearably expensive!! sometimes we talk 3 times a week, but we are very aware of the phone bill, at nearly 20 cents a minute, being the poor college students we are.
I think I remember reading somewhere that they are only a few hours away. And there are always phone cards if you are in the same country (or in different countries), they are relatively inexpensive.
if you both have computers do the skype. my old girlfriend and I have been apart for 3 years but we still keep in touch. She doesn't have a computer so I get cheap phone cards off ebay and we write letters. She's coming down for christmas this year.
well I don't have enough money to have a land line installed and to keep a phone line running each month. I just have a cell and with international calling its 20 cents...even with a phone card..you ar elucky to get 100 minutes for 5 bucks. and that may be a generous estimate. granted I could get maybe 2 weeks outta that. I mean, I could look into that to see if it would make the 20cents/minute cheaper. not sure how much it would cut back on international calling costs. skype is a good alternative right now its msn and a little webcam.
eBay has some good phone card deals if you are willing to look around al lot. I got $100 worth of cards for $20.
well as for SKYPE...Its not all its cracked up to be. I mean me and my gf both have wireless and we are lucky to get 10 minutes before it hangs up on us. mostly it hangs up on us after 3-5 minutes..with wireless and a good- excellent signal.. I will continue to try..it might be her end.
i was dating this girl for 3 years and i move down to Tn i and me and her had to break up cuz she did not wanted to have a long distance thing and i was hurt like a mother fucka but i got over it is there anyone else that was like or had some thing close let me kno
im going thru times where i dont feel i can cut it...like today....but then i get a phone call & its like i jus saw him an hr ago. ive been in long distance for 4 months wit my 1st real bf
