Obviously you have an attitude problem toward the male gender, and I bet the 'perfect' man couldn't change your mind.
If you think men are more sexually-oriented than women, you should talk to my girlfriend. This sounds like the normal uptight, puritanical propaganda that is propigated in countries like Afghanistan and America. I'm sorry you have had bad experiences with men. I hope you will forgive them and yourself at some point in your life. I have had some really bad experiences with women, but I still love women. Sex is a healthy part of any loving relationship. People in love should have as much sex as they possibly can. Sex is fun, healthy, clean, wonderful, beautiful. If you learn to love yourself and forgive others for being human, your attitudes toward the opposite sex will change. You will also start attracting more loving people and have much better relationships. The Goddess loves you. She loves us all. Relax and love. Love is the law.
i agree with most of the post, but i've been cheated on by way more women who were onl interested in sex, than i've cheated, or been a third party for a cheater. so from personal statistics i've gathered i'd say your wrong about the last part. also i wouldnt say this entire post was sexists, there was some women bashing too.