During oral sex, do you enjoy...

ladies: When you're giving oral to a guy, how do you feel about him putting his hands on your head?

Guys: Do you enjoy the dominant aspect of it?

The whole forceful bj thing turns me on so much.

 

I love it when a guy puts his hands on my head when I'm going down on him. Even a little hair pulling and setting the speed.:drool: :&

 

i like it when they play with my hair it feels amazing

 

i like it.
alot.
let's me know he's alive and well.
i also like him to be a little vocal.
i can't stand it when guys are completely silent.
i fucking HATE it!

 

:agree:

 

i was with a guy like that for awhile and it was such a turn off to me.
AND this guy ALWAYS wanted me to be on top.
so it was like fucking a dead guy who happened to have a hard on.
haha terrible!

 

yikes that does sounds shitty

i gotta agree with you girls about the dominant thing... nothing forceful but some guidance and hair petting and pulling sometimes... it's hot

 

I think it's part of bonding in the activity. By playing with a womans hair, or caressing her face, I send messages to her, and no joke, what she's doing sends messages to me.

I have the problem with females, when i go down on them they don;t touch me. I'm not a fucking vibrator ladies. Give me some information here !

 

dominant isn't the word I would use. Guidance is more like it. Like this...ooo.. like that... that sort of thing.

 

I hate when they're silent!

and for me, it is him being dominant. Many women don't like it when guys push on their head or touch it while they're giving him a blow job. I do though.

 

I dont mind it as long as they dont push down until I gag and keep doing it, Only cause I dont wanna throw up. But it also helps me know what speed they like.

 

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Sounds so damn, well, boring. Why bother with that!

 

I fantasize about it a lot. I've never had it done though.

I'd need to -really- trust the person doing it. There's that potential to gag etc. and I usually need to pull back from time to time to put my jaw back into joint, which he'd have to let me do still. But in theory, it's damn hot... because I love D/s play and hair pulling

 

I like to put hands on head, usually to slow her down `and sometimes to try to encourage her to go deeper. My girl can't deep-throat, she starts to gag, but she usually isn't willing to give ita try without a little encouragment. I don't usually like to force that sort of thing, I consider it high0risk for me but a gentle pressure .... you get the idea .

 

I like it, so long as he lets me pull back when i need a little break. When he doesn't, i've found that a little biting goes a long way!

 

I hear ya, but YIKES!! Easy with the B- word! LOL

 

i don't mind people putting there hands on my head, i agree with the silent thing, i don't like, i like to know i'm doing the job right... ya know what i mean??

 

No worries, not silent hear. Plenty happy to give direction if needed or just let you know how happy I am

 

I love that photo.