So....my girlfriend cheated on me and left me for her ex. Why do people do this shit?? haha, I'm kind of mad and sad, too. Anyway, just wanted to ask, have you ever been cheated on, gay or straight relationships, if so how did you deal with it? Or have you ever cheated on anyone and why? Just curious to hear both sides.
I've cheated a couple times. Lots of things seem like fun when you're drunk but don't in the morning.
i kissed a guy when i was drunk and my then-bf saw... it was weird because we had both made out with other ppl while at drunken parties, but since this wasn't done around him (or wasn't meant to be i guess) he broke up with me because of it. i did it because i was kind of pressured into it... i didn't really want to, but at the same time my bf wasn't making me feel good about myself... we hadn't even been dating very long... maybe two months. maybe it's because of this incident and because kissing is so common... i mean who here has played spin the bottle or how many straight girls have made out with other girls? kissing isn't a big deal to me i guess... it's the feelings behind it, if there are any. an intimate sober kiss alone is certainly more threatening than a drunken kiss at a party or club. but yeah, that's my cheating story. and i'd say to the OP that the guy probably wanted to be with his ex and that's why he did it... it's just too bad he didn't realize it and tell you before he cheated.
My girl cheated on me once, but I forgave her. I saw that she was sorry. I had a hard time trusting her again, but she proved to me that she is worthy to be trusted again.
i've been in both situations...i cheated cuz i was still madly in love w/my X...then i was cheated on...well all in all he was a loser...i felt guilty after cheating...and i moved on after being cheated on...i know i will never cheat again...it really does suck...you hurt ppl you care about...just move on...i know easier said then done...but you'll see that in the long run it's prolly the best for you..
my take was: she cheated, she was out. Fortunately the cheating crushed the love, so I only hurt - no anger. You live with it and keep goin. Divorce took the sting outta the whole thing....took time & money. I grew up fast! Repeat after me three times: the hell with her!
hahaha Amen! Same thing happend to me last week after 3 years. I took my son and said the same thing! I already got some girls lined up and it's been like 5 days.
I've cheated on and been cheated on. I can't do being cheating on I hung up the phone on him and ignored him after that. I was a little upset until I saw who he cheated on me with when she was looking at my myspace and then I felt a hell of a lot better and realized they are a much better fit than he and I were. Sometimes people cheat on you not because you aren't good enough but because you are too good for them and they know it. Maybe he just feels more comftrable with his ex and it's not you at all. Just think of it this way-she is the stupid woman who thinks it's okay to take him back after being with somone else...do you wanna be that woman...I bet ya don't.
i was cheated on, i left her. she used to be one of my best friends, now i could care less about her, but i didn't get mad or stop hanging out with her and mutual friends. it made me upset and moody for about a week, but i got over it. i just think, maybe some day she'll learn that is not how you treat people, and when she does, she will be a better person, so i will continue to treat her nicely the way i always have. i would never cheat on a girl, and i would hope she would have the same respect for me... if not, then i don't need her love in my life.
Well, I know that I am probably better off with out her, but we were together for 4 years so it kind of hurt...really bad. Funny thing is the girl she ran off with was someone that she had previously left twice for someone else. Yeah.....big long complicated thing....there were lots of warning signs, I guess I had this hope that she still loved me....blah....hehe TO HELL WITH HER TO HELL WITH HER TO HELL WITH HER LOL
It'll keep right on hurting for awhile, then the sun comes out. Then you refreshingly look back and think,"I did right by me, at last!" Meanwhile you've all us anonymous friends at whom you may rant, weep, or whatever. We'll stick!
