There is this cute guy at work that I think may be hitting on me. I sometimes see him at the corner of my eye looking at me. Whenever I turn around and look at him he smiles. He tried to talk to me last time and kept asking me if I had a girl friend. I told him no, turned around and then he tapped me on the shoulder again. We had a short converstation and when it was over I turned around. After a while he tapped me on the shoulder then he said "Hey what's up man? You know what I mean." He had a smile in his face. Well actually, I didn't really know what to say. You see I am only 17, and thus far I have only been with girls and never actually gone out with a guy. Since I took so long to respond, he changed the subject before I could answer and started asking me what I like to do on my free time. I really like this guy but I am afraid I might be getting the wrong idea. He isn't your stereotypical gay/bi guy. In fact, that's probably the reason I haven't been with a guy as of yet. I am so afraid someone might friking lash at me for getting the wrong idea. What do you guys think I should do? Should I go for it?
ell, I am not really experienced with all the gay flirting...but I do think you should show your interest in the guy. Maybe ask him to join you for a drink. You'll know if he s just friendly or really interested in you.
he sounds interested...but who knows. ask him to go out for lunch or something. create a better relationship.
I think you should get to know him a bit first...maybe go out to lunch...talk awhile and figure out where his mind is really at before you move any further.
When I was younger and thought a guy might be into me, I would talk about a friend and nonchalantly slip in something about him being gay. That way he would I know I would have no problem with him if he was gay and so usually he'd tell me, but if he wasn't, I wouldn't be putting myself in a position where I could get hurt. I'm sure there are better ways, but it worked for me.
