Busted by parents.

Yeah. I'm in total and utter shock. But it happened. My mom searched for my MySpace, found it, and read all my comments on both ends. She found a message from me to Dakota asking for more weed before my dad got home, and she found it. She woke me up in the middle of the night and told me she knew what I did. I had no idea what she was talking about, until it hit me. At first I denied, but she threatened to get Dakota in trouble if I didn't confess, so I had to. I told her I did it, and my only regret was that I couldn't get high anymore. She was pissed, and asked me how many times I did it. I said twice, even though it was more like five, and thankfully she believed me. She wants to get5 a drug dog over to search the place, and I'm not too worried except for I have a tiny bit in the ditch right next to my house. I hope they don't search there. She locked me in my room and let no one talk to me and refuses to tell me what she's going to do to me next. Damn.

 

Ahh man, that sucks... I'd hate for my parents to search for the computer for stuff about me. I guess it was bound to happen sometime though, parents always find out. Do you think she'll tell your dad?

 

that's ridiculous
parents spying on their kids like that

 

wtf your mom sounds like a total nazi. im not even exagerating here. fuckin hitler shit

 

so any news on whats going to happen?

 

How do you get locked in your room?

 

she locked you in your room????
thats like definitely fucked up. what if you have to go to the bathroom or something? Ya thats definitely messed up.

 

It sucks that you got in that much trouble...bummer! I got busted a couple weeks ago too. My parents just told me not to do it anymore, but that isn't going to happen.
When do you think I should start again? I also told my parents that I only have done a couple times, but it's probably closer to a couple hundred times.. not that anyone's counting. Peace.. and best wishes.
P.S. its a lot easier to deal with if you just look at it as a hiatus.

 

damn man that sucks but yeah thats some straight up nazi shit, my parents never know anything they only know i tried it and they always say "make good choices whenever i go anywhere"

 

I have a few comments:

1)Your mom thinks that pot will harm you and is trying to protect you. Whether her opinion is correct or whether she should have used those techniques to protect you are seperate issues. Your mom cares about you. (Witness her protecting you from your father. (I'm guessing about "stricter" from your other posts.))

2)Leaving traceable communication about drug use is foolish.

3)Using e-mail to get marijuana is just asking for trouble; for you, Dakota or both of you.

4)Welcome to the Caught by Parents club. (Just wait until they walk in on you and your BF.)

Good Luck.

 

switch out on her, dont act like im sorry it will never happen again, say ur almost 16, and that u can make decisions for urself, after u said that get backfire her nazi attack with

'how dare you go through my private stuff/emails/myspace'
'have u no respect for me'

tell her that its far better off to be a lonely junkie behind a crackhouse who isnt hurting anyone but himself, than a filthy, nosy little piglet. then say by the way im not a lonely junkie behind a crackhouse, im a responsible 15 year old who knows wat shes doing and doesnt need this type of rubbish, say u will never forgive her for what shes done and that she CANNNT stop you from smoking, say one way or another u will be getting high, its her choice whether its behind some filthy/dark ditches, or privacy and safety of no pigs in her room. then tell her will i have to keep hideing myself, or will u finnaly accept, is she does- yay ur finnaly aloud to smoke
if not, jump out ur window with 50$, goe to dakotas, get super duper uber wrecked, comehome with pocket fulls of dobe and dash it infront of her, say u hate her and run away with a bunch of hippies to mexico. , basicly thats what i would do

 

hey bummer man thats shit

 

i love u dude that was fuckin halarious. i wanna smoke a blunt with u ma nigga

 

damn woodstock!!!!
shit girl..are u ok?
ya know i was worried bout that..but i never expected her to do that, i was far more worried bout her noticin u smokin at home that time
dependin what she tries ..1 u know u got support here.. and 2.. it may not be so bad
i dont think u gotta get all confrontational like greenxx said, or give up smokin entirely, just be safer and more careful for now
play the good lil girl at home and be yourself when your out, but always be smart
ya wont be there that much longer really
and once your outta there ya can throw it in theyre faces
but while your there, it will only make things worse

 

I agree with MikeE

 

yea..i did too

meant to say that but forgot

 

Down with myspace

 

always use a nickname for weed on myspace. that should have been obvious because anyone can read your comments from parents to teachers and cops. Its sad to hear after all of that smoking preparation you got busted so quickly but it happens to the best of us, you'll live and learn.

 

That sucks. Hearing how your mom reacted I now understand your need to rebel against all of that. I think 'nazi' is appropriate. Locking you in your room? That is fucked up.

But MikeE is right, she is just doing it because she cares about you. Even if her methods are insane and irrational. One of my friends has parents like that and you've just got to stick it out until you're 18. It's not that much longer, really.

Just be more careful in future and don't talk about weed on MSN or myspace or any of that stuff. Or at least delete all traces of it if you do. Also, I hear over there the cops use myspace to bust people.

And yeah, codenames are a good idea. My friends and I have codenames for pretty much everything and it helps.

But yeah, sorry you got busted. You were only starting out, too.

 

woodstock ive got a nazi mother like yours lol and when i first started smoking i got busted in a similar to you, she read my msn chat logs and found out (and found out about alot more personal stuff than just weed >.<)

anyway dontttt do what mrgreen said, it will not work, she'll prob just get you drug testedevery week and wont let you go out, and bust your friend dakota

tell her she has majorly disrespected you and youre trust in her will never be the same after she invaded your privacy and snooped around

tell her you wont stand for her shit and if she wants respect from you then you need it from her