Several questions. Very confused.

Hi all. I am 16 years old (male)and have some questions about sex in general. I was homeschooled until last year when I was enrolled in a public highschool. My parents have never talked to me about sex other than telling me not to have sex. I know very little about sex to be blunt. I have never watched pornography for fear of my parents finding it or something. I am extremely confused since I've never had anyone to talk to about sex and I would appreciate if I am not insulted in replies, I just want some answers. So I have several questions about sex that I don't know where to get them answered other than from people that I do not know personally so here goes.

1) Size
I am very confused about penis size. My penis is usually about 2 1/2 inches soft however sometimes it is larger like 5 inches or sometimes even smaller going down to 1 1/2 all soft. Erect however my penis is usually 8-10 inches. Is this normal to have the penis go to so many different sizes?

2) Erection
I don't understand how I am supposed to have sex. When I get an erection my penis goes straight up and is parallel to my torso and body. I would imagine trying to have sex with an erection like this would be extremely difficult and probably painful for me. Is this normal and if so how in the hell does one have sex with an erection like this?

3) Act of Sex
How does one actually have sex? This makes no sense to me. Basically what I am asking is how to have sex. I don't what to do really. Would a guy just put his penis into the vagina and begin to thrust or what?

4) Procedure to Sex
How do people end up having sex? I have a girlfriend and we have kissed and made out but I don't see how the progession works into sex. I don't understand how you go from sitting there talking and kissing to getting a condom on, getting your pants off, and having sex. It just doesn't make sense to me. I would think it has a lot to do with the hands and touching, you know like cuddling and stroking and everything but I really don't know. This is probably the part of sex I am MOST confused about so please give a thorough answer to this question.

5) Pleasuring a girl, knowing when sex is over, etc.
How does a guy know when the girl is satisified with sex since from what I can gather men orgasm and cum much more quickly than women during sex. Also How many times can a man cum and orgasm during sex and how do you know when it's over?


These are all the questions I have for now. I may post more in the future but all help is appreciated in advance. Thank you all very much.

 

well, I'll try, if you're serious:


1. yes, it's normal and you sound perfectly OK size wise, maybe even alittle bigger than most.

2. Your erection sounds normal and even "hard as a rock" hard, and trust me, it works like that.

3. yes, you put in the vagina and thrust, or maybe have her sit on top and do the moving. whatever feels good really

4. It is a natural progression and if you're not getting there maybe you're not ready. The last thing I would do if I was you is try to be to clinical about it. People have been figuring out how to have sex forever.

5. I would be open and honest and not embarrassed to discuss this with your gal. That would be the best way to find out what she needs to achieve her orgasm. It's not the same for every girl. You can tell when I get mine, I'm, ummm, loud, but I'm sure that doesn't speak for everyone.

Hope that helps some.

 

Take your time. If you think about how to do stuff too much it looses a lot of its magic. Dont rush the progression, enjoy every step. With my girlfriend there was several months where we did a lot of hand and finger kind of stuff but not as far as oral yet, im glad for that, i got a good feel for where her sensitive spots are and how her body reacts to different things, if wed gone straight from making out to sex, i doubt I would have known how to have sex either. There were a lot of girls i dated where i never went further than making out, then whith my current girlfriend, who ive been with for 3 years now, it just felt comfortable and things slowly escalated, it was wonderfull. My point is, just let it happen, dont rush, be gentle and be sensitive, and just enjoy every moment wiout thinking of some more sexual thing you would like to do, those things will come in good time.

 

Let me be the first to say... Your parents are over protective. I'm sure you love them and all.. But keeping your child from sex is a BAD idea.. Because when the time hits... And they dont know what to do... We have teenage parents running around and thats bad..

Dude, You're fine size wise, Your boner is fine. Read these forums more and I'm sure all your questions will be answered... If you want more info on the "game" part of it.. Send me a PM...

 

Hahahahaa, that's funny.

 

you sound like a cute confused kid haha i had the same questions when i was younger, be open to your parents they can help

 

If youre serious:

1-Yes, this is perfectly normal
2-Yes, the penis goes in the vagina, just as it is erect. Its not awkward, its at just the right angle, and you and your girlfriend will be moving around naturally and itll be just fine
3-Again, basically yeah, penis in vagina, thrust as you wish and how your lady likes it
4-If this is your main question, then ill spend a little more time on it.
Its like this, for me...sex is the natural progression because the love between me and my partner is so great, that when we spend time together sometimes, we both feel this energy-call it hormones, chemicals, what you will. But we both feel we need to get CLOSER to eachother. To give to eachother, share with eachother. We need more than a kiss. Sometimes a kiss will spark it. Sometimes itll be even more spontaneous than that. But its a feeling that you need to get closer.
And so by becoming naked we can press our bodies together, we can forget all social rules for a while and lose control together, just touching eachothers bodies and feeling all the feelings. And obviously, because sex feels so nice, we do those things. And by the very act of sex our bodies become "one for a while" and were sharing an experience
I hope you can understand this.
Also understand that this varies from couple to couple. Some people have sex for different reasons
5-This depends entirely on the girl. For me it needs time, and care, and lots of love and foreplay. You will know when shes satisfied if you listen-shell probably let you know in some way or another
As for women always lasting longer, i havent found this to be true, so dont worry.

Overall, just relax, and only do what comes naturally to you. If youre not feeling the urge to do it, then dont. There shouldnt be any expectations. And talk to your girl about this

-Maxi

P.-syeah over protective parents can really screw things up

 

Yea, I can tell you were homeschooled-you can actually form a sentence....:lol:

 

I really wish I could help you Baby brother..but the best advice ai can give is that you and your girl sit down and talk about this...if you twoare already making out , then you NEED to talk !!
Theres nothing to be embarrassed about or ashamed of...sex is a beautiful , natural act , without it...none of us would exist !!