hey this may sound weird and Idont want to go into too many detials but i AM ATTEMPTING TO get over andout ofa bad relationshit. hes salking me and the police won t do anything about it, he sees me at friends houses and attacks my car, hes beaten me and tore down any self esteem i have i dont want to live anymore and i dont knowwhat to do becca
Get a restraining order asap. It's not exactly protection, but it will keep him locked away for a few days if he harasses you. Keep a journal of when, where, and what takes place. It can be a BIG help WHEN the police or court system gets involved. Buy a thing of pepper spray, learn how to use it, and carry it with you at all times. Make sure your friends, neighbors and family know what's going on so they can keep an eye out for you. Stay away from him as much as possible. Don't take his calls, don't talk to him period. Talking to him, even if it's you telling him any more how you feel or that you don't want him around, will keep his attention focused on you. Sorry you're in the situation you're in. Hope things get better for ya.
After things are settled with him trying to harrass you, definitely get help for yourself. Try talking to a professional. If you have health insurance that would cover a counselor great. If not there are many free resources available. If anything, pick up a book on self-esteem, self confidence, or loving yourself. You would be suprised to know that many of the situations we come into are because we attracted them to us. I'm not saying that you deserve any of this, or how he is treating you, but it helps to understand yourself and how you influence the outcome of different situations. Respectfully, uh oh!
