Hi..I been talking to someone online for like 3 months..and I really really like him.I mean I really dig him hard..And I have like feelings or whatever for him. But he dont know this.and i have tried this internet thing before,and it hurt me so bad,last summer i was infatuated with a man and yadda yadda yadda,now we dont talk and he broke my heart.I was in a fake relationship. And that hurt badly..And I like this guy too much to just stop talking with him..I think of him night and day,and he dont leave my mind for mor e than a second..sometimes,it seems in little things he says,that he likes me too. but just the other day,he said "oh i dig ya but i dont think it would work between us." So i think,why the hell not? And it hurts that he dont know,and hurts if this is just a fantasy. I just cant tell him ,how i feel..i dont want to ruin it,and he makes me feel so happy just talking to him.I had to tell someone..will someone help me,pleasE? What should I do? oh! the pain is almost killing me! I am so confused.. Help me. someone, anyone! :''( Thanks..
You are in love with the idea, it sounds like. I would try to find some one local if I were you. I used to be like that, I wsa in a serious rtelationship with a girl (local) and after we broke up, I still thought I loved her and wanted nothing more than to be with her. After going over it all in my head, I wasn't really happy with her at all, I wast just in a secure relationship and really looking forward to the future of it. It wasn't her, just the idea.
