He wont cum

I never had problems making any other of my parteners cum but my current boyfriend wont finsh I will go for almost an hour and nothing i have tried everything...when i asked him he said no one has ever be able to make him cum he does not finish easy...do you think i am doing somthing wrong or do you think he is telling the truth...and do youhave any tips to help me to get him to cum

 

If he can't cum it is probably because he is addicted to masturbating himself. Tell him to stop whacking it. What he has done is trained himself to enjoy only self stimulation, and therefore isn't very responsive to other types. I had that problem too. It took forever for me to cum with my gf and i couldn't figure out what it was. Then I stopped masturbating for a week and came all over her instantly.

Question for members. What is the difference between being a member and a guest?

 

........guests don't join or pay and can't see the provocative pictures in "Erotica," I think.

 

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Back to the original topic... perhaps if you asked him to masturbate for you so you could see how he stimulates himself? Or as someone else mentioned, asking him to cut back on the masturbation so he's a lot closer simply from lack of orgasms.

 

could be a more medical reason as well
i doubt its technique

oh..is he on any recreational substances?

 

Huh...I really have that problem bad...I was starting to think I had anorgasmia.

Damnit now this sucks. My sex lifes so random i wont know when to save up and when to self satisfy.

 

alright that makes sense I feel better I thought i was doing it bad...then there is no point to even do it cause i do want him to enjoy it

 

Some people just have a hard time having an orgasm. Don't take it personally.

There's only one position that works for me, and even that doesn't work every time.

 

thats one reason why I prefer relationships to random one night stands.

 

check out this link from askmen.com:

http://www.askmen.com/love/love_tip_60/92_love_tip.html

This will explain the masturbation problem in detail. This sort of thing is more common than you might imagine. This should give you some insight on how to handle the situation with your bf. Use this knowledge to serve the greater good. Good Luck.

 

Thanks I talked to him about it....he denys it but I think your right cause of course he wont admit to it.