Okay, here's the deal. A couple days ago while on my bf's laptop, I "stumbled" across his porn files. There were maybe a hundred short movie clips and a shit-load of pictures. Now, I have no problem with him looking at porn. The thing that struck me, however, was that they were all schoolgirl themes; you know, pigtails, lollipops, knee-high socks, plaid skirts, cheerleader outfits, the whole bit. This stuff wasn't child porn, just women who were obviously trying to look REALLY young. We've discussed and done kinky things before but he has never mentioned this "teen" fetish. I just don't know if I should come strait out and ask him about it, or just wait and see if he eventually brings it up. I would much rather do what I can to fulfill this particular kink myself than for him to keep it bottled up inside. And if he's so into that look, how come he's never talked to me about it? I'm not sixteen anymore but I'm sure I could still pull off the look.
I say next time he comes over to spend some "quality" time with you, surprise him with pigtails, knee highs, and a school girl outfit. He has probably never talked about it because he doesn't want you to think he is weird for being into that stuff. So he keeps it bottled up inside. Set him free!!
You're absolutely right. I want him to be open and honest. I guess he just needs to know that I'm not "weirded out" by it. Thanks.
Exactly. Revealing your kinks and interests is, well, revealing. Makes a lot of people feel very vulnerable. I think you should just suprise him sometime by being all dressed up next time he comes home :X
or maybe you could start little by little, tease him by adding some new details to your style. give him the 'is it me or...whats going on?' moment all my lovers and boyfriends were into the lolita thing. I have never worn the actual schoolgirl uniform but i have lots of clothes that remind that look. like sometimes i wear a short black dress with white kneehigh stockings and some hot pink shoes.
I thought about getting a little "oral" with a tootsie roll pop while watching TV. See what kind of reaction I get, and then play dumb. "What do you mean? I'm just sucking a tootsi pop." Ha! maybe I'll wear pigtails.
Definitely tease him a little bit at a time. Just hint at it... using one part of the total image. You can get great sex several times be revealing just a small piece of the total look, then that might open a dialogue that will lead to the all out look.
