me and my girlfriend were a little over 8 months together in a very small town... We broke up a coupel of time and each breake-up brought us closer together.Im 18 and she's 16.A coupel of days ago she escorted her girfriend(on her birthday day) to receive a present from some guys .She was with one of them before ( after we broke up once, but she left him for me ) and she promised me she would never see him or have anything to do with him again.She called me @ 1 am to tell me that she couldnt sleep and that she was thinking about me.The next day i found out where she was, and that she wasnt sleeping at 12 am , and on the phone she denied it as 1st... I was very disapointed and i didnt want to hear a nother word from her...Yesterday we talked and she told me she wanted to tell me on the phone what happend but she didnt have the erge she thought she would lose me. Now even if i want to get back with her i cant , because 2 days in a row she cried and her parents saw her and forbited to continue with me...What should i do? I feel we have been in so many together and we really love each other, were bouth suffering so much.Yesterday we hugged and kissed, and we decided to wait a week to how things will develop... its just her parents that we have to get past ... solution?opinion please..
What's to forgive? She's got to learn that choices have a price. You sound too good to let her keep screwing you emotionally. If you can't be patient until your own feelings settle, walk away while you still got your own pride of self worth. Thing is there's plenty of women who''ll honor a committment. Go find one - they are the ones NOT making 12am calls. They are sitting home waiting for Mr. Right- be one! Start singing a new tune, Tuneguy.
Your relationship sounds just like the one I was just in. Everything was going just fine, when my parents stepped in and told us we couldn't date anymore. We dated behind there backs for 6 months. My parents finally found out and I had to stop dating my ex-boyfriend. It started out ok, and then we just stopped talking. I think it would be a good choice to stop dating now, instead of waiting longer because it will hurt worse and you might not be friends anymore. Good Luck though!!!!
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News flash We have been over 8 months 2ghether and we went threw some breakups, but now she kind of told me that things arent the same but she's afraid to end it because she thinks she might regret it.Now i think i should wait a little bit and be distant to c if she'd come around and if not , to brake up with her , and when i do brake up i wanna have the attitude that i dont care to much about her,( even thought i feel like crying when i think im gonna lose her )...At least keep my dignity..Opinions?The problem is i feel like a really love her... But i cant love her knowing that she doesnt feel it anymore
