My girlfriend and have just begun fooling around after a very long break (a few years) and something that bothered us back then has come up again. She has a lot of trouble having an orgasm. I am aware that this is the case with many girls, and most require specific events to take place in order for an orgasm to happen. I know quite a few sexual "techniques" to spice things up and make it interesting. However, instead of having to orgasm, she tells me what I do makes her feel as if she has to pee. In all my years learning about sex, this has never came up in any conversations or topics other than my own with her. Please, if you have any explanations and/or tips, they would be VERY GREATLY appreciated.
Your just hitting her g-spot it's a normal reaction, and if she's willnig to allow the sensation to contiune you could give her one of the best orgasms of her life and let her expierence female ejaculation.
Have her take a pee before you start fooling around. Do a lot of foreplay, and then go to work. It takes a lot of stimulation for most women to orgasm. In fact only about 25% of all women can orgasm with intercourse alone, another 25% can orgasm with manual clitoral stimulation during intercourse, another 25% can only orgasm through manual stimulation, and 25% never have had an orgasm! Women have clitoral orgasms and g-spot orgasms, sometimes both at the same time. Here is what you can do - she knows her clitoris better than you do, so she works on that. You lie on your back between her legs. Put her butt on a pillow and enter her vagina with your index and middle finger (clean, nails trimmed, well lubricated) palm up and feel her pubic bone. Make a "come hither" motion with those two fingers over the faint spongy mound on her pubic bone two or three inches in. Have her tell you if you have found it. Continue for as long as needed, and if you are lucky, she will have a simultaneous clitoral and vaginal orgasm which is better than anything we guys have ever had.
