what should i do?! please HELP its killin me

lol, iight this gurl iz bein dumb...
shes in one of my classes and ive known her for a while, she used to like me, i didnt like her and we havent spoken to each other for a while and now i like her and im guessin she likes me too but im not sure..

she has a fuck buddy she visits every now n then, it pisses me off sooo bad, wtf is wrongg with her!!!, im usually nice to her and idc, but i cant b nice n e mroe cuz im startin to like her too much to just see her fuck this dude when ever he wants some!!

how hsould i let her know i care, i mean i hate startin a convo, cuz it seems like she barrely ever starts one..and i talk to her almost every day and like i said shes in one of my classes...and i dont want to jsut say it flat out, i want her to relize herself by the way i act or talk that what shes doin is WRONG and that i CARE...

please help! please thanks!

 

and no shes not my girl freinds, and the fuck buddy isnt her boyfreind

 

Um, just talk to her. Talk about the class material. Ask to go for a study session or tak eher out for coffee after a particularly bad exam/assignment. Ask about the relationship. Just fucking take the first step and start talking to the broad.

 

She isn't your girlfriend. You're not allowed to get pissed if she's having sex with someone else. She isn't wrong.
Don't try to be subtle. Let her know, flat out that you dig her. If she rejects you, move on. If you're blunt, she may notice you and want to be with you.

 

it is generally wrong to fuck someone, when ever the guy wants some...hes basicly a stranger, she saw him at a party or somethin and ever since they just me meet up have sex n go home...thats messed up, and i do have a reason to get pissed off cuz ilike her , and shes showin me that she likes me too,

i mean its obvious she tells me she likes me to my face i tell her i like her flat out, and were alwayz like lets hang out, and we never really do..!

 

Maybe its not only when HE wants some....maybe shes in it for herself too...and maybe she doesnt think its wrong getting some off of him...you are looking at it onesided ...she probably wouldnt be screwing him if she wasnt getting some for herself.

 

Well, what do you expect her to drop everything else just becuase you show some interest? It's not going to happen. If you want an exclusive relationship with her then ask. Then you will know one way or the other. Telling her that she is wrong is not going to get you the girl either. Stick to the positives.

 

thanks..but its obvious that i like her, and up until last week she showed interest kind of, we were talkin on gettin an hotel n partyin with some ppl some weekend it was her idea too..and now it seems like shes tryin to rub it in my face..like talkin to her freind that sits in our table and says "guess what?! that dude said we could get together next weekend, and "chill" "

and idk it just seems like the only reason shes with him is because hes in college and fuckin him will boost her confidence, and hsell get a feelinof bein loved, cuz he obviously for a fact isnt into her..shes just a quick fuck buddy to her i kno that cuz she basicly said that to me..

 

Judgemental much?

 

You DON'T have a reason to get mad. Liking her doesn't make you her boyfriend which means her private life is not your business.
You sound kinda stalkerish to me.

 

im not stalkerish, cuz she talks to me, she tells me about her, and she used to tell me about that boy, but she doesnt anymore...i never told her my opinion or sounded negative in any way...and i kno she doesnt want to be like that with him cuz she told me she doesnt, and she told him she just wants to be freinds, yet he calls her to hang out, and they end up havin sex everytime they hang out, even thouh she doesnt want that kind of relationship, shes shallow, i guess she doesnt want to say no...but im really not stalker were pretty good freinds so i kno a lot about her.

 

If she didn't want what she has with him, she wouldn't go over in the first place. She knows what's going to happen.

 

Oh man, I've been there and done that. Some guy starts fucking a girl you're passionately in love with and all of the sudden your "love" is real love and she's a victim and he's an asshole. You act as though she has no free will or intelligence: As though she is a flower who's petals must be stroked lightly, and only by YOUR infinatley skilled hands. Well, she's not. She's a wild, sexual animal like yourself. I think the way you present your argument is self rightchous and immature. I'm coming off as mean, which I shouldn't, because I went through the exact same thing. She got laid left and right, and all I could do was watch in terror, pace the floor and break stuff. The first thing you should do is overcome your irrationality and try to win her. If that fails, you probably don't want to talk to her or be her friend, because seeing her will remind you of the guy. So basically, go for it. If it fails, turn away and don't look back, because you'll only deteriorate and fall victim to jealously and lunacy.