Hi there i am a 23 year old girl and i only like having anal sex! let me explain! about 5 year ago i met my partner, we went out for a year before having sex and got tested etc, and after a couple of years decided to experiment! and we tried anal, and i basically want it all the time, i find 'normal' sex boring compared to it!! i have orgasms within seconds too! But now my partner doesnt want to do it anymore! ive even bought some sex toys and use them alone! now im worried i will damage myself, you see all porn stars with big bum holes and things i dont want that to happen to me! but i can only getturned on this way and love anal porn to! HELP! :$
Just don't go over the top, nothing TOO big, nothing too often, plenty of lube, not too hard, you'll be fine.
My wife is the same way. She insists on anal. The difference is, I love it too. We've been having anal sex for about 13 years. We have anal sex about five times a week, and we both have mind blowing orgasms every time. I can't believe your guy doesn't like this. You might try using a butt-plug with him in your vagina. Just be assured, there are plenty of guys out there who would be happy to anal you any time you'd like. As far as wearing your hole out, like I said, I've banged my wife's ass about five times a week for the last 13 years, and she's just as tight as the first time we did it. That's a lot of cum in her bum! Your sphincter is a muscle. Just like any muscle, you can learn to stretch it, and control it.
